It's like they're getting carried away by their intrusive thoughts. I could be so jealous and posessive that I would want to punish my partner for being a slut in the past, and at the same time I could be so scared of being rejected that I would wear a ring and pretend to be into something just so this player guy won't hurt me. I wouldn't do any of those though cause I think before I act and I'm capable of communicating properly, but if I let my intrusive thoughts win instead of thinking before acting/talking then I'll easily be both of them. So, as frustrating as this is, it's actually interesting to read for me. Even when I wish they would communicate, I understand them both.
It's like they're getting carried away by their intrusive thoughts. I could be so jealous and posessive that I would want to punish my partner for being a slut in the past, and at the same time I could be so scared of being rejected that I would wear a ring and pretend to be into something just so this player guy won't hurt me.
I wouldn't do any of those though cause I think before I act and I'm capable of communicating properly, but if I let my intrusive thoughts win instead of thinking before acting/talking then I'll easily be both of them. So, as frustrating as this is, it's actually interesting to read for me. Even when I wish they would communicate, I understand them both.