I have a sister who struggled with learning. So my parents encouraged her to pursue sports or the arts. My sister and I were treated fairly, and it turned out that I excelled in both academics and sports n want to pursue it professionally. My parents were more serious about supporting me financially. My sister became increasingly lazy and ended up constantly comparing herself to me, developing a victim mentality. He became lazy and didn't try anything always complaining. She had been directed and advised to do better, but she always fell on deaf ears. Until my parents were no longer as successful as before. I also stopped persueing sport. And I worked hard academically, earning a scholarship so im not too much of a burden. But my sister remains lazy and still compares herself and told people that I had it easy. Now we dont talk anymore. Maybe becuse my parents are hard on us that we tends to see result on everything and ignore each other
I have a sister who struggled with learning. So my parents encouraged her to pursue sports or the arts. My sister and I were treated fairly, and it turned out that I excelled in both academics and sports n want to pursue it professionally. My parents were more serious about supporting me financially. My sister became increasingly lazy and ended up constantly comparing herself to me, developing a victim mentality. He became lazy and didn't try anything always complaining. She had been directed and advised to do better, but she always fell on deaf ears. Until my parents were no longer as successful as before. I also stopped persueing sport. And I worked hard academically, earning a scholarship so im not too much of a burden. But my sister remains lazy and still compares herself and told people that I had it easy. Now we dont talk anymore. Maybe becuse my parents are hard on us that we tends to see result on everything and ignore each other