im sorry u had to go thru that. big hugs for you :( also i wish the same thing for jaeyi and ideum. hope they work it out eventually
I feel u
Even my parents r the same, they didn't even brought a small slice of cake for me on my birthdays till I got 14, and a lot more...life ain't fair, now is it?
tysm!!! It was definitely worse esp when I was a kid but whatever I learned to cope with it by being more vocal and demanding about my wants and needs and conditioning myself that it's okay to be selfish and I deserve to be loved. And yes, I feel like ideum and jaeyi will undergo healing together but I hope the process won't be hurtful
Yes it is, that's why when people don't celebrate you, you should always celebrate yourself. You deserve to be loved, I hope you get all the cakes in the world in your upcoming birthdays ( ◜‿◝ )♡
I wanna cry it's always the parents who are the root cause of all the issues we have. As the always 'dependable' younger sister who always gives way for my older sister cause I the family knows she's mentally unwell, I feel for Jaeyi. You just can't have anything without being deemed selfish for not adjusting for your sibling (I remember my birthday this year I didn't even like a single food that was prepared for me, it was all my sister's favorites cause she requested it. I slept through the whole day and lowk cried Lol).
It was never the fault of the brother that he was sick and was prioritized, and it wasn't the fault of jaeyi because he was just a kid who also equally wants the attention and care of his parents. It's all the parents fault for being incapable, biased and neglectful, and I hope that jaeyi won't project those issues on ideum (ik he will and that's kinda sad. And I just hope that ideum will be there for jaeyi like how jaeyi was there for him about his scar. This is a journey of healing as much as it is about sex lol.