So he doesn’t want to love anybody because he is scared he is going to lose them and has to give them up like his passion in childhood. And he was neglected by his parents. So he learned not loving at all was better than losing it or be disappointed. And now he realizes he ist starting to love the bottom, gets anxious that his brother is going to take him away like he took their parents love away from him and now he is jealous.
Btw, I don’t think he or the brother who was sick is in the wrong here. They both needed extra care when the brother got sick. This is 100% on the parents.
So he doesn’t want to love anybody because he is scared he is going to lose them and has to give them up like his passion in childhood. And he was neglected by his parents. So he learned not loving at all was better than losing it or be disappointed. And now he realizes he ist starting to love the bottom, gets anxious that his brother is going to take him away like he took their parents love away from him and now he is jealous.
Btw, I don’t think he or the brother who was sick is in the wrong here. They both needed extra care when the brother got sick. This is 100% on the parents.