HAHAHAHA DOHWA THE YEARNER???? You mean the crybaby who guilttrips her and got rejected THREE TIMES???
Y’all are so misogynistic you don’t care about Suae, you only like her when she chooses Doh. The second she doesn’t, suddenly she’s “a bitch” and “doesn’t deserve him.” And Dohwa is NOT an angel. He saw that she was desperate and used that to his advantage. All 3 have HUGE issues, but your boy Dohwa needs therapy too, yk why? Bc apparently Suae saying NO. MULTIPLE TIMES. is not enough for him to stop. You can call it yearning, love whatever you want. Ignoring someone’s repeated refusal is not romantic. It’s disrespecting her bondaries. So maybe stop treating Suae like a prize Dohwa is entitled to and start respecting the fact that SHE SAY NO 3 FCK TIMES.They are NOT IN LOVE, sooae doesnt want him since DAY ONE
The audacity to call Eunhyeok a “manipulator” when your fave literally used Su-ae’s guilt and fear against her
Dohwa knew she still had feelings for Eunhyeok, yet when Su-ae tried to be honest about her feelings, he literally shut her down with “That’s not what I wanted to hear from you. This time, only look at me.” And in Ch.132, Su-ae is still affected by what happened before and is afraid that rejecting Dohwa again could make him leave her AGAIN.
But somehow Eunhyeok is the “manipulator” because he has complicated feelings, while Dohwa gets a free pass for pushing Su-ae when she’s clearly conflicted? Be so fucking serious
And “Su-ae would be a bitch if she goes back to him”??? Girl, you're literally threatening to hate a woman because she might make a romantic choice you don't like That tells me everything I need to know.
Also, stop turning “Dohwa did everything for her” into a debt Su-ae has to repay with a relationship. She doesn't owe him romance because he did things for her. If she chooses Eunhyeok, that's her choice. If she chooses Dohwa, that's also her choice.
You said one of them is “ruining his life by choice to have her” and the other is “acting unstable to have her,” yet somehow the guy who's openly pushing her to only look at him gets called the healthy one.
Maybe actually pay attention to Su-ae's agency instead of treating her like a prize Dohwa earned by suffering enough.
No need to fight with y'all eunhyuk lovers even, you like a character exactly bcs you find something you like in him and your language is enough to prove it. Btw suae and the author are having the choice not y'all, you can calm down. It is either she will make suae a btch after eunhyuk no matter how bad he treats her just like with her first bf or she would give her a sane mind and let her choose the one that cherishes her, we're talking about suae here not those two, and dohwa definitely deserves her, don't y'all think it's alright to have a jealous bf?
I’m not fighting with y’all I’m just telling the truth because Dohwa fans love changing the narrative to make their fave look like some perfect man who “cherishes” Su-ae while pretending his own actions don't exist.
And “Dohwa definitely deserves her”??? Since when does Su-ae become a reward that someone DESERVES because they did things for her? She gets to choose who she wants, not you.
And please don't hide behind “a jealous boyfriend” like that explains everything Jealousy is a feeling. What someone DOES with that jealousy is what matters. If Dohwa knows Su-ae still has feelings for Eunhyeok, pushes her to only look at him, and doesn't want to hear an answer he doesn't like, that's not something you can erase by calling him a “yearner.”
You keep saying we're talking about Su-ae, so actually TALK about Su-ae. Her feelings, her choices, her agency. Not “Dohwa deserves her, therefore she should choose him.” That's literally making the decision for her.
So no, I'm not fighting. I'm correcting the fanfiction you guys keep presenting as canon.
You keep saying Eunhyeok treated Su-ae badly, and okay, criticize him for that. Nobody is stopping you. But then turn around and excuse Dohwa for getting cold after rejection, withdrawing multiple times, making Su-ae feel guilty, and pushing her even when he knows she still has feelings for Eunhyeok.
You cannot scream “Eunhyeok hurt her, so she shouldn't go back to him” while simultaneously saying Dohwa “deserves her” despite the fact that Su-ae has also been hurt and pressured by his actions. Pick a standard and stick to it.
I ain't reading allat we all read the same shit and it is allowed to have a different opinion, you are calling dohwa a guilttripper for refusing to open an awkward topic and ruin his little happy time with her but when that selfish thing makes her whole life miserable that she can't trust herself to love another man it's nothing?
Ofc you won’t read it, thinking isn’t your strong suit You said “we all read the same shit” and then proceeded to ignore half of what the story actually showed
And nobody said Dohwa refusing to have an awkward conversation automatically makes him evil. The problem is you calling it “just refusing to ruin his happy time” while ignoring that Su-ae was literally struggling with her own feelings and trying to be honest with him. He knew she still had feelings for Eunhyeok and still told her, “That’s not what I wanted to hear from you. This time, only look at me.”
You can have your opinion, but don’t turn your interpretation into canon and then act shocked when someone points out the contradiction.
“he was drunk” pathetic excuse. As if Dohwa only ever did questionable shit when he was drunk
He was perfectly sober when he confessed his feelings after knowing Su-ae was with Eunhyeok. Sober when he became cold after being rejected. Sober when he kept pushing his feelings despite knowing she still had feelings for Eunhyeok. Sober when Su-ae tried to be honest with him and he shut her down with “That’s not what I wanted to hear from you. This time, only look at me.”
So please, don't reduce everything to “he was drunk” just because it's convenient. If you're defending his behavior when he's sober too, then at least own it instead of using alcohol as a pathetic excuse whenever he crosses a line.
I'm not shocked eunhyuk's defenders has been always like the same, and I'm talking about what's annoying suae the most, which her bf, not some friend to her back then, ghosted her with no explanation and dare to show up and still choose not to excuse himself, giving her the udea that she was nothing to begin with, that's why he needs therapy, he's not yearning, he's just stressed and delusional and needs something to dumb his shit on it, even hee sister knows more than her. That's all, unlike some certain second ml.
Not trying to kiss her while she was asleep would’ve been a good start Then confessing and getting upset that she didn’t realize feelings he hadn’t properly communicated, instead of putting that responsibility on her.
And “now she was none’s” doesn’t erase what he did before. You can defend Dohwa taking his distance after rejection, but you can’t pretend everything he did leading up to it was just him “respecting their relationship.”
I love how you suddenly have endless context and excuses for Dohwa, but when it’s Eunhyeok, you want to ignore every bit of context. That’s not an argument, that’s a double standard
Lmao typical Dohwa fan running with made-up scenarios and crying the second someone brings up the actual facts
“Ghosted her with no explanation” as if we know every single thing that happened that night He tried to contact Su-ae and she didn’t answer. You can criticize the 10-year disappearance without pretending the manhwa showed you his entire thought process.
And “he gives her the idea she meant nothing” is YOUR interpretation, not a confirmed fact. Meanwhile, the story literally shows Su-ae’s feelings are complicated, so stop speaking for her like you’re her therapist
You can call Eunhyeok out for not apologizing or communicating properly. Fine. But then keep that same energy for Dohwa instead of turning every questionable thing he does into “he’s just yearning
Ykw they all should go their separate ways, If there's endgame I would prefer dohwa bcs what he did didn't affect her to the point of avoiding him. She was the first who went to him after that timeskip which means what he did wasn't as impactful as her bf back then did. Idk either accept a toxic relationship with eunhyuk, or go happy with dohwa or just accept single peaceful life ¯_(ツ)_/¯

Ch 141, srsly eunhyuk needs therapy, that's not yearning, he's just delusional. The real yearner is dohwa, my boy did everything for her, just to be a bit better than eunhyuk for her, if she still chooses eunhyuk I will become a hater of suae this time. It's irritating me how one is ruining his life by choice to have her and the other is acting mentally unstable to have her, he's a complete manipulator the girl did nothing to deserve any of your trauma and suae would be a btch if she goes back to him