Idk man, I wouldnt be able to be apart from my SO for 4 years either that would break me so much. I was already crying so much and feeling miserable when we were apart for 2 weeks, even though we could call each other and stuff.
I get where he's coming from. I dont remember if they are able to keep in contact in some way but if they dont I would have been equally devastated. At least he isnt telling her something like hes killing himself when she leaves, that would have been manipulative. But telling someone that you cant continue staying with someone after being apart for 4 YEARS is understandable imo.
I get it. I was sympathizing with him as well but now it kinda feels like he thinks as if he's the only one suffering. One thing that i've never liked about eiftain is how he handles emotional things like this. Sure, he didn't tell her that he was gonna off himself, but still telling someone that if they go then you'll let them go knowing that your partner is also suffering and making a very difficult decision for both sake feels kinda manipulative, but again this is just my take. It is a very delicate situation so everyone can pick their own side to stand on
I'm getting fed up.That's emotional blackmail. We get your trauma, but this situation is nothing like your mama's. She told you the exact time she was gonna stay away, and you KNOW she loves you and she wants to come back to you, so sit your ass down and wait for your woman you big ass toddler emotional manipulative attention seeking piece of shit(╬￣皿￣)凸