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I am just curious, how does one go about dating and having sex with someone else when they...

Peekaboouu October 7, 2026 9:17 am

I am just curious, how does one go about dating and having sex with someone else when they obviously like a completely different person? If you like someone, dont you want to do all that with only that person? Dont you feel disgusted or numb/empty when you have sex or go on dates with someone you dont even like romantically?

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    cat October 7, 2026 4:23 pm

    Most people aren't on the asexual spectrum so they can feel sexual desire even without romantic feelings

    Peekaboouu October 7, 2026 7:24 pm
    Most people aren't on the asexual spectrum so they can feel sexual desire even without romantic feelings cat

    I just always assumed that they go hand in hand. This is a very different concept for me. So does it mean that I am not considered normal in this aspect? So most people date and see how it goes, and if they end up falling in love then they continue dating and if they dont then they move on to another person ? What about people who have casual sex/situationships or one-night stands? What is their thought process? I am actually from a conservative religion/culture and havent dated so I cant fathom certain things and am curious about other peoples perspectives to this.