this is me copying paste what I had reply to someone, after rechecking the novel. And, Yohan genuinely believes his father and his entire family hate him. Yohan's belief is rooted in real emotional abuse and extreme pressure from his father, who verbally degraded him, telling Yohan that he didn't know why he had to raise him and calling him a "bug" that should be stomped to death. Rosa initially told Kang Jun that Yohan was "the most loved one in our house" and claimed their parents favored him She said this because, from her perspective as his sister, Yohan was constantly given expensive things (like motorcycles), had his trouble covered up by their parents, and seemed to get away with bad behavior. She assumed Yohan was merely a manipulative, dramatic sociopath playing the victim. When Kang Jun confronted Rosa with the fact that their father explicitly told Kang Jun that Yohan was "second priority" to him, Rosa fell into confusion and admitted, "He told me I was second, too". Kang Jun realized the truth: their father ranks all of his children as "second priority"there is no first priority. Their father does not love any of his children unconditionally; he views them purely as tools and competitors. Rosa’s initial claim that Yohan was the "favorite" was simply born from her own sibling rivalry, misunderstandings, and envy of Yohan's privileges. -----
When Kang Jun spoke with Rosa, she suggested Yohan was just using Kang Jun as a toy or plaything, citing Yohan's violent outbursts. Yohan operates on a cynical rule created to protect himself: "It's way more fun being the one doing the tormenting than the one getting hurt". To the outside world (including Rosa), Yohan put on a cold, sarcastic, or cruel persona to hide his vulnerability. When Yohan acted violently or obsessively toward Kang Jun , it was driven by an intense fear of losing Kang Jun and fear of being abandoned. Rosa completely misjudged her brother's true feelings and defense mechanisms. And yeah I think yohan was actually in love with jun, just in a obessive way
this is me copying paste what I had reply to someone, after rechecking the novel. And, Yohan genuinely believes his father and his entire family hate him. Yohan's belief is rooted in real emotional abuse and extreme pressure from his father, who verbally degraded him, telling Yohan that he didn't know why he had to raise him and calling him a "bug" that should be stomped to death. Rosa initially told Kang Jun that Yohan was "the most loved one in our house" and claimed their parents favored him She said this because, from her perspective as his sister, Yohan was constantly given expensive things (like motorcycles), had his trouble covered up by their parents, and seemed to get away with bad behavior. She assumed Yohan was merely a manipulative, dramatic sociopath playing the victim. When Kang Jun confronted Rosa with the fact that their father explicitly told Kang Jun that Yohan was "second priority" to him, Rosa fell into confusion and admitted, "He told me I was second, too". Kang Jun realized the truth: their father ranks all of his children as "second priority"there is no first priority. Their father does not love any of his children unconditionally; he views them purely as tools and competitors. Rosa’s initial claim that Yohan was the "favorite" was simply born from her own sibling rivalry, misunderstandings, and envy of Yohan's privileges.
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When Kang Jun spoke with Rosa, she suggested Yohan was just using Kang Jun as a toy or plaything, citing Yohan's violent outbursts. Yohan operates on a cynical rule created to protect himself: "It's way more fun being the one doing the tormenting than the one getting hurt". To the outside world (including Rosa), Yohan put on a cold, sarcastic, or cruel persona to hide his vulnerability. When Yohan acted violently or obsessively toward Kang Jun , it was driven by an intense fear of losing Kang Jun and fear of being abandoned. Rosa completely misjudged her brother's true feelings and defense mechanisms. And yeah I think yohan was actually in love with jun, just in a obessive way