"it all depended on my choice" "it was terrifying"
i feel there's a type of parenting that make a child become afraid of making decision OR there's a type of child that will just be afraid to make a decision. but i believe strongly in the former. even if parents/guardian has good intention or just being protective, they can easily miss the parenting method to make a child be more aware and confident with making choices.
stuff i can think on top my head are letting children having their opinion or hobby, if the kids are too shy or quiet then ask for their opinion/feeling instead of just waiting it out, thinking they will get out of their shell by themselves NAH unless something happened and the child used their own willpower to overcome it getting out stronger (if lucky), the child gonna have a hard time growing up anyway. if it's not working then maybe the child is ND or already growing anxiety since inside the belly
also giving them small responsibility and made them aware of their responsibility in gentle way, etc. haish i actually just bored so i write this
"it all depended on my choice"
"it was terrifying"
i feel there's a type of parenting that make a child become afraid of making decision OR there's a type of child that will just be afraid to make a decision. but i believe strongly in the former. even if parents/guardian has good intention or just being protective, they can easily miss the parenting method to make a child be more aware and confident with making choices.
stuff i can think on top my head are letting children having their opinion or hobby, if the kids are too shy or quiet then ask for their opinion/feeling instead of just waiting it out, thinking they will get out of their shell by themselves NAH unless something happened and the child used their own willpower to overcome it getting out stronger (if lucky), the child gonna have a hard time growing up anyway. if it's not working then maybe the child is ND or already growing anxiety since inside the belly
also giving them small responsibility and made them aware of their responsibility in gentle way, etc. haish i actually just bored so i write this