ajin wasn't that much of a failure. it's easy to guess that she has mental health issue. how hard it is to just talk to her or bring her to see a therapist? it's insane to throw away years of their investment because parents don't believe mental health's is a thing ..... having a child as investment/trophy is bad in the first place, but I just want to add that there are so many layers of ignorance beside that too.
well although if they believe in mental health in the first place they wouldn't treat their child as a mere investment/trophy..... now it makes sense
anyway to me, korean people personality is so frustrating (as i've seen in modern setting webtoon so idk IRL). they often cursed even to their good friends, although as endearment it always gives me aggressive and toxic tsundere vibe. basically almost everyone here is like that, dojun, bloomie's sister, and bloomie's cousin. so it seems their love language is hard love but often it can't be differentiated with toxic treatment (their word is still hurtful, yes you dojin). on the other hand people can claim their toxic treatment as hard love. so people like ajin for so long thought that her mom still love her.
aaah so mad!
ajin wasn't that much of a failure. it's easy to guess that she has mental health issue. how hard it is to just talk to her or bring her to see a therapist? it's insane to throw away years of their investment because parents don't believe mental health's is a thing ..... having a child as investment/trophy is bad in the first place, but I just want to add that there are so many layers of ignorance beside that too.
well although if they believe in mental health in the first place they wouldn't treat their child as a mere investment/trophy..... now it makes sense
anyway to me, korean people personality is so frustrating (as i've seen in modern setting webtoon so idk IRL). they often cursed even to their good friends, although as endearment it always gives me aggressive and toxic tsundere vibe. basically almost everyone here is like that, dojun, bloomie's sister, and bloomie's cousin.
so it seems their love language is hard love but often it can't be differentiated with toxic treatment (their word is still hurtful, yes you dojin). on the other hand people can claim their toxic treatment as hard love. so people like ajin for so long thought that her mom still love her.