I saw someone say that it's Yujin's fault that Aaron is like this now, wow victim blaming ...

I saw someone say that it's Yujin's fault that Aaron is like this now, wow victim blaming I see. "It's your fault you turned me into a rapist," does something break in readers' brains when it's a man being abused? No matter what Yujin did, he has free will to leave if he wants. But oh Aaron chaining Yujin to a bed and assaulting him is Yujin's doing. My god what the hell people.