Responses
i’m not therapist but i think you’ve just articulated your problems perfectly and while i don’t know how long this comment took you, just taking a moment to think through what you’re going to say isn’t a flaw of a person at all.
but taking a moment to think about what to say is making him feel like he's talking to a wall. Or he thinks that i don't care....
I just had a serious conversation with my partner and I was feeling down cuz i realised that I ruined a special moment due to my communication issues. So I felt to urge to read chapter 79 and 80 cuz why can't I communicate like uyun? I'm a mix of jinhyeong and uyun's flaws but I'm neither smart nor a good emotional support. I don't even know what I actually want or how I feel and no matter how much I promise I would change and communicate next time my words gets trapped inside my throat or I'm processing the info too slowly. I'm inspiring to be like uyun I don't want to make my beloved partner overthink and sink any lower because of me anymore. Any advice?