So i hv 2 friends and we are a trio , its been a while since we hangout and we only hangout once or twice a year since we're all busy with jobs,sch and life ect . But we do text like almost daily in the gc just to keep updated and all.
Then yesterday , one of them (lets call her F ) text in the gc saying they wanna hang out . But the thing is she only said my other friend's name ( L ) . Like "hey L , we should hang out tmr " . At first im cool with that , since F's campus is close to L's workplace and im far . Plus , they are working / school so they hv money and i dont since im currently searching for jobs . So maybe she doesnt wanna pressure me or smth .
But then , idk if L didnt get that she only said her name and not mine , L seem to think we're hanging out as "we" , after all we never plan a hangout for just 2 , if we do most of the time its just simple lunch and it wasnt planned . It make sense that she thought that . So she start saying like "where should we go ? " "Guys remind me again to fill up gas later lol since im driving tmr " . F didnt say anything about the "we" and "us" , but somehow i feel F's replies after seems pretty emphasizing on the " just them" .
Now im confused TwT am i invited or its just them ?should i ask ? What do i even do ? I dont wanna hv to ask cus that'd be pretty embarrassing for me if i wasnt and it'll make it awkward , and L would def feel guilty abt it . But again , if you plan on going just two , why would you announce it in the group where the 3rd person could see ? So that means she's saying us 3 right ? cus i dont think F would ever do that to me ..but idk TwT Now i hv 2 more hours till the hangout , i decide , if in 1 more hour she didnt ask for my new house location , or saying smth "im getting ready i'll pick you up at **:** " then ig im not invited , i just dont wanna ask cus it'd be embarrassing TwT ik its stupid but yeah .
What happened, did you go? Cause i think you shouldn't. Pretty sure she should've just said 'let's hang out' instead of mentioning your other friend's name x)
So i hv 2 friends and we are a trio , its been a while since we hangout and we only hangout once or twice a year since we're all busy with jobs,sch and life ect . But we do text like almost daily in the gc just to keep updated and all.
Then yesterday , one of them (lets call her F ) text in the gc saying they wanna hang out . But the thing is she only said my other friend's name ( L ) . Like "hey L , we should hang out tmr " . At first im cool with that , since F's campus is close to L's workplace and im far . Plus , they are working / school so they hv money and i dont since im currently searching for jobs . So maybe she doesnt wanna pressure me or smth .
But then , idk if L didnt get that she only said her name and not mine , L seem to think we're hanging out as "we" , after all we never plan a hangout for just 2 , if we do most of the time its just simple lunch and it wasnt planned . It make sense that she thought that . So she start saying like "where should we go ? " "Guys remind me again to fill up gas later lol since im driving tmr " . F didnt say anything about the "we" and "us" , but somehow i feel F's replies after seems pretty emphasizing on the " just them" .
Now im confused TwT am i invited or its just them ?should i ask ? What do i even do ? I dont wanna hv to ask cus that'd be pretty embarrassing for me if i wasnt and it'll make it awkward , and L would def feel guilty abt it . But again , if you plan on going just two , why would you announce it in the group where the 3rd person could see ? So that means she's saying us 3 right ? cus i dont think F would ever do that to me ..but idk TwT Now i hv 2 more hours till the hangout , i decide , if in 1 more hour she didnt ask for my new house location , or saying smth "im getting ready i'll pick you up at **:** " then ig im not invited , i just dont wanna ask cus it'd be embarrassing TwT ik its stupid but yeah .