maybe im overthinking but we knew amount of bl's are written by women right, and their view of male sa is so weird like when the bottom says "im hurting", "i dont want it" and the fukcing rapists reaction is like "look u enjoying, look at your body" like how hurtful and despising it is our body to betray our minds, feelings and then the authors write the bottom to think "ah right, im enjoying, it hurts but i can ignore", like it seems lot of these women overlook or maybe intentionally ignore and degrade male sa as just thing that happens in sex or smth and it really pisses the fuck out of me
maybe im overthinking but we knew amount of bl's are written by women right, and their view of male sa is so weird like when the bottom says "im hurting", "i dont want it" and the fukcing rapists reaction is like "look u enjoying, look at your body" like how hurtful and despising it is our body to betray our minds, feelings and then the authors write the bottom to think "ah right, im enjoying, it hurts but i can ignore", like it seems lot of these women overlook or maybe intentionally ignore and degrade male sa as just thing that happens in sex or smth and it really pisses the fuck out of me