I've taken care of drunk ppl before and I've never felt the slightest bit of interest in them being unable to consent and some of these ppl where HOThot but the lack of being able to consent to anything made me dry, it's just taking care of a giant baby at some point... I never understood why so many men feel "tempted" to take advantage of someone drunk, even when they "ask" for it (cause they have asked me too, I like all genders BTW, even men have done this to me), as the sober, sane, responsible person YOU SAY NO... And I understand sometimes ppl get drunk to get "courage" to ask their crushes to do things but it's just not my thing, many times they don't even remember ANYTHING and that's annoying af... I've wondered if maybe I am in the ace spectrum cause I need very specific things to happen for me to do things
I've taken care of drunk ppl before and I've never felt the slightest bit of interest in them being unable to consent and some of these ppl where HOThot but the lack of being able to consent to anything made me dry, it's just taking care of a giant baby at some point... I never understood why so many men feel "tempted" to take advantage of someone drunk, even when they "ask" for it (cause they have asked me too, I like all genders BTW, even men have done this to me), as the sober, sane, responsible person YOU SAY NO... And I understand sometimes ppl get drunk to get "courage" to ask their crushes to do things but it's just not my thing, many times they don't even remember ANYTHING and that's annoying af... I've wondered if maybe I am in the ace spectrum cause I need very specific things to happen for me to do things