Bro I hate this its like that dull kinda painful thats too realistic? Like often parentified kids become people pleasers who seek the chaos in their childhood with chatoic partners, make those partners think theyll accept everything about them and once the partner gets dependent on them they lose interest and dip. Likewise often the kids who werent loved by their parents take that out on their partners and are unreasonable until their partners get sick of them and it becomes a self fulfilling prophecy of rejection.
Bro I hate this its like that dull kinda painful thats too realistic? Like often parentified kids become people pleasers who seek the chaos in their childhood with chatoic partners, make those partners think theyll accept everything about them and once the partner gets dependent on them they lose interest and dip. Likewise often the kids who werent loved by their parents take that out on their partners and are unreasonable until their partners get sick of them and it becomes a self fulfilling prophecy of rejection.