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ex u meann hobong? afaik the reason why he is dating that hobong guy is bc the offficials of hwanmae's country banned all men in the military on having sex with hwanmae. the only one willing to have sex with him is hobong, (hwanmae tops him ig- he never bottomed except once and gwanchang) thus when hwanmae and his ex have sex they turn off the lights bc if its the dark everyone is the same.

Does the novel kinda go in depth of Hwan Mae and his ex? Bc I wanna see his Mae’s thought process of dating that dude lol