She was a warrior but didn't like it, she chose her husband and crippled her talents to take herself and her family out of the successor hunt.
She wanted a normal life unlike the hell she grew up in. I mean, look at how her brother raised his son and the times he tried to kill her son. It shows what she didn't want.
She had a happy life until her enemies found them.
She went back home because her husband and daughter were she dead and had Raon to provide for.
She went back to that hell and the successor fight (her son) because of what happened.
She is a bit broken mentally after all of that, which is why she has this perfect mother facade.
But never forget, she knows how to fight. But she's basically a mere mortal around demi-gods now.
Guys how the author handled MC's mother so far is bothering me. Does she ever get to have a time where she isn't just a perfect wife or a perfect mother? Like girl give us something pls. Also is there a logical explanation for why she broke?/destroyed? her power to elope? Why couldn't she elope without doing all that???