Exactly! It always ruins the whole comic and story for me. There is no need to be forceful and take advantage of someone who literally want to have sex with you. He should be able to restrain himself when a person he supposingly loves is tired and no longer is getting pleasure out of the sex. Especially, taking advantage of someone who is passed out is disgusting. It's not the act of desire that some authors seem to think that it is. There is nothing more hot than consent and respect for your partners boundaries and limits!
"Fiction isn't a moral dilemma" yes the fuck it is when you romanticize fucking rape. I'm sure you wouldn't romanticize other disgusting crimes like pedophilia. There is nothing romantic about not respecting the boundaries of your partner and their right to their own body. Who the heck likes watching sexual scenes where only one of them enjoys it??!! Like WTF

Do people seriously think that just because two people like each other that means they automatically consent to sex no matter their state..? I hate how yaois have normalized rape, it's fucking disgusting.