How can sara know? Soojung doesnt communicate, so she cant know the extent of the problem. She could just accept it, but someone who really loves you wouldnt encourage you to bottle up things that are clearly unresolved. Sara gave really sound advice which is "talk to her, even if things wont be fixed, it will make you feel lighter".
it's honestly no one's at fault. soojung as much her mother not handling the past deeply does not mean it's the same for soojung, people have different impact w situations... so she were literally hurt as much as she's saying it's all in the past but it's hurting her that her mother wasn't taking it seriously, and it's hurting her too if she's asked cus what if sara will say she's making a big deal, she doesn't want to hear that again especially to sara. ofcourse it's not like sara will say that right?... soojung is not familiar about vulnerability she was more practically blunt, it is really not easy to talk but sara is unstable she won't know shits cus she has been accepting people words around her just for her to feel secure, so she can't understand someone she love wouldn't even talk her way... she's just as scared as soojungs. but their difference in a way is literally crashing . so it's really good how this will have a way of their flaws together. (english is not my first language)
Thank you I think I understood the situation more after reading this TT
I'd disagree and take sara's side. She obviously doesn't tell her to forgive her mom constantly and also all she's doing is sharing her opinion and its lowk valid from a person that has no family, soojung is lowk overreacting but everyone reacts differently
Imma be so fr but if I were in Soojung's place I would also react like her, I get that it's not Sara's fault but I can't help but take Soojung's side in this, you can't just forgive someone who had hurt you especially when it's someone you trusted and it doesn't feel good when someone constantly tells you to do so...