No she doesn't. She should unlearn her trauma bruh. Trauma doesn't give her excuse to do whatever she wants including hurting innocent people. And in the novel she gets worse. Varkas is nonchalant because he is just doing his job which is protecting the siblings. It is not his fault that Thalia's obsessed ass got attached to him and started expecting some love story
How the fuck do you unlearn trauma while going through trauma??? You don't just change because you get older. You have to be put in an environment where you get the chance to work through your trauma. Thalia STILL in survival mode. U sound ignorant and victim blamey. Trauma doesn't give her an excuse but you cant act like she's scum if the earth for not "unlearning" the horrific abuse she went though and is still going through.
You’re making it sound like trauma that happened years ago. When she literally just had a panic attack an episode ago because of something that happened two episodes ago. Like this isn’t old trauma that she “just needs to get over” these are continuous traumatic experiences that are happening to her on the daily. Let’s assume (because I forgot if they mention her age) that she is like 18 years old and you need her to work through 18 years of trauma in a couple episodes??? That doesn’t even make sense. Before she can process something old, something new to her happens. No one is glazing her in these comments everyone makes a valid point that her violence is not the right answer but instead the only answer she knows. And imagine in all those years of everyone even your own mother treating you like you’re nothing someone comes along and treats you like a human being, only to turn around and act like you’ve never meant anything at all. Of course she s going to have a complicated relationship with him in comparison with the people that started being mean to her from the get go. But I suppose if this doesn’t explain anything to you, you can just stay ignorant. Empathy is not easy for some of you.

Thalia's bitchy attitude pisses me off so bad. When is she going to learn? Varkas deserves better