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I mentioned her being a noble cuz i saw some folk saying she was acting irrationally towards a child (which, yes) but let's recall that our Ria (lia?) Is just a commoner right now. It would not be unreasonable for certain people to act indifferent towards her, unlike those who adore her despite the circumstances*.

It's right in our faces but im hoping that the eldest isn't the ml dude. Am I the only one who's uncomfortable TT isn't he like 16 if not older?
And second, I feel like im the only one who actually gets the mom. She's valid in everything, poor thing has been unable to properly grieve her child. Imagine you've been losing your mind and your health is deteriorating.. only for some kid to claim she's your missing kid? Triggering ! Simply stating that she should've known to act "like an adult" is crazy. 1. She's lost her mind to an extent , 2. She's a noble. What'd you expect.
I don't think these are hot takes but anyway