mind you that's because twink/feminine top tropes are the minority in bls. When someone says they want the bigger one to top instead its because they're feeding into heteronormative misogynistic stereotypes.
Me saying I simply wish the bigger one could bottom isn't harmful and I already acknowledged hes not, I'm just simply not going to continue reading this. So sorry for hurting yalls feelings

Ik light hair is probably the seme but i wish he was the uke tbh