Yo I’m so sorry that you have such poor friends but if you’re looking for a job. LIE!! Lie lie lie lie especially if it’s a cafe job if it’s like a warehouse job or a medical job don’t lie for those you are putting yourself + someone else at risk. You will learn along the way and if you make mistakes they’ll chalk it up to you being the newbie. Also, be as charismatic as possible this is coming from somebody who has gotten hired at like 7+ jobs I have basically lied on all of my resumes. I’m only working 3 of those jobs because 7 is a lot… but here’s my advice
Summer jobs
Life guarding, cart girl and elections! (Elections just finished up but yeah)
Winter jobs
Target (seasonal), Ice cream shop and ice rinks
Jobs in general
Nannying, babysitting and receptionist
Life guarding I didn’t really lie because I did get life gaurd certified but make your connections and be as conventionally attractive + easy to talk too as you can be. Try to get that in person interview I would also like to note cafe jobs are usually connections from my experience. A lot of people I know who work at cool niche cafes often have some kind of connection to the owner. Again so sorry but get that money up not your funny up
Ive talk abt them a while ago , and this is the 2nd time and i realized , im not "just feeling things " or overreacting .
Im in a trio , Last time i talk abt them making plans in our gc , (lets call them F and L ) but F only mentioned L named , and turns out im not invited even tho i was also texting that time and they talk abt it in our group . Then after that they hungout twice again without me also planned it in the gc while i was asking and texting abt it . I really dont care if they wanna hangout tgt as their workplace and campus are near e/o , but couldve texted privately , thats just rubbing the fact that they dont want me there in my face smh . Then lately theyve been acting different , ever since hanging out tgt . And after a while i figured they definitely talk smack abt me during those 'hangouts' .
So Ive been looking for a new job right now , while managing my own food business , but somehow , my luck is soo freaking bad that i got rejected from all my application . Then yesterday F sent me an email address and said that the address from her local cafe , theyre hiring , even sent me a ss of the text from the friend who gave it to her saying theyre hiring . But they know i already got rejected from my application from that place :D but i just thank her , said i already applied to that place not long ago and said i'll just send application again tonight jic . But then Both F and L was like "no no no, we want you to apply now " i was like umm okay ?? I dont understand why it need to be now , but i did send my application asap . Then i told them "done" , then immediately they went "oh really ? Send the picture and prove we wanna see ". And i was like okay wtf ? Excuse you ? Is this whole thing bcs you guys think i was pretending to look for job ? You guys think ive been lazing around and lying about applying for jobs and LYING ABOUT GETTING REJECTED FROM ALL ?? Is that why you guys were acting different ? Did You talk about me faking unemployment during those hangout ? I was irritated after that but didnt wanna jump to conclusion , i just sent the whole email ss and didnt say anything after , till next day . Next day , F brought it up again as if she still didnt believe i sent the email already . She ask stuff about what i said in my email , cover letter, did i sent the doc to my cvs ect . And i was so annoyed , cus dude , i LITERALLY SENT YOU THE WHOLE FREAKING SS OF MY EMAIL , FROM COVER LETTER TO MY CVS AND ALL . TF DID YOU THINK I SENT IT FOR ?? DID YOU THINK IT WAS AI ??? PAY FUCKING ATTENTION . So i just replied "thats literally the whole point of me sending the picture " then she went "hm k" . Then this morning the cafe got back to me , it was rejected from the job bcs they werent hiring at the moment .. like usual , but excuse you ? I thought you guys were hiring ??? So i ss the email and sent it to the gc just to shut them tf up . No words just sent the ss to them . Then F had the audacity to tell me "lol chill" as if she werent the one sending me that vacancy and urging me to do it . I hope that fucking shut them up . Im not texting in that damn gc again . And one day i'll fucking deleteit maybe .