They have a safeword
Yup
Okayy. So I'm not really into bdsm, I enjoy it casually though so genuine question even if the other party says it hurts, it's okay to continue since he hadn't said it? (Cause his inner monologue is saying he's hurt )
Yes, as that is the reason why the Safeword was made! Because if the person say it, that means they have hit their limits. Or they just don't enjoy it! So anything else doesn't stop the play unless the Sub say it. :)
Basically in bdsm a no doesn't mean stop or it hurts .
When the sub says the safe word the top is expected to stop right away cause anything beyond the safe word is not consent.
Safe word= STOP/NO.
Safe word = stop. It doesn't matter which party says it. As the safe word is for ALL parties that are doing the play. Not just the 'sub or 'dom'.
Even if one party says it hurts or they are in pain, it's perfectly acceptable to continue the play.. unless one says said safe word. BDSM is a broad spectrum but it always needs strict consent and procedures prior to play. After care isn't essential but lots of folks prefer it. And a good dom or sadist will always give aftercare. (THOUGH, IT'S NOT ALWAYS THE DOM OR SADIST GIVING AFTER CARE. As dom drops are just as frequent as a sub drop.)
Hopefully this as well as the other comments give you a bit more of an idea of the bdsm world.
It's good but please seun-i don't ever turn blind on your partners pleading to stop next time oki? Cause that look that it hurts