OMG LITERALLY Sujeong messes up one time and now she’s the worst. Like obviously the conflict with her mother is a very sensitive topic and she doesn’t want to talk about it, not only, that her mother is very clearly the reason for Sujeong’s intimacy problem, LIKE SHE LITERALLY THREW UP WHEN THEY WERE TOGETHERRRRR. Sujeong built those walls for a reason and that reason is her damn mother.
You are right Sujeon has been there for all the times Sara has had a hard time and now it's Sara's turn to be there for her, but I'm sorry but this is not a valid crashout, specially after making Sara open up.
This are not boundaries, this are walls that are actively hurting her relationship and Sujeon is avoiding her affective responsibility (not sure what the term is in English) by not even trying to work on them.
Also it was a really shitty move not texting her to cancel the date.
She doesn't need to talk with Sara if she is not ready but she really needs to work on this (and showher partner she is working on it) if she wants to be in a relationship
Sara has done Sujeong so many times and the ONE time she fucks up AFTER SARA VIOLATED HER BOUNDARIES AND PRIED AFTER BEING ASKED MULTIPLE TIMES NOT TO, and yall switch up saying sara deserves better???? what??? yall are so FAKE im sorry Sujeong has had so many valid crashouts and this is one of them and i WILL NOT APOLOGIZE