I think it's more popular among the arranged marriage couples, if this happens between normal couples that were in love ext i consider that cheating and sort of grooming where the relationship is genuinely toxic and they should break up, but when it's agreements and business like (even if the characters secretly love eachother) it's less horrific, like if you don't wanna have sex with the partner just step on ur heart and let them fuck someone else, do not do it forcefully bc that's also noncon

it might be just me but i lowkey hate this "if you won't sleep with me i can fuck someone else" trend they've got going on. lately they've been sticking it on "northerners" for some reason. ik it's for manipulation purposes here and it's still driving my shit away