Honestly, it's 2026, and authors need to come up with better justifications than a character sleeping with a different person every night simply because he has nightmares and can't sleep. That's potentially 30 partners a month, and over two or three months, the number could easily cross 100. At some point, the lack of realism becomes a distraction, especially when the story conveniently expects us to find it romantic when the MC eventually gets involved with him.
And honestly, some of these newer BL/yaoi stories should just dropthe romance label altogether. The characters spend 30 chapters sleeping together, and then suddenly they're in love. Apparently, physical intimacy is enough to magically develop romantic feelings. There's nothing wrong with writing casual hookups or purely physical relationships, but why call everything romance? Sexual attraction, physical intimacy, and emotional connection are three different things. Authors really need to understand that.

I don’t know why I hate this trope of I hear you sleeping around so I am gonna get with you does no one else find that as a turn off I am still gonna read but I wouldn’t like this in real life for me