Idk who needs to hear this but please do not fall !madly! In love with someone. Loving someone to a point where you are compromising your personal, economic, and emotional, well-being is not ok, you need to hold yourself in a higher place than others. By saying this, I am not saying to hold yourself in similar esteem to a ruler/deity, but to place yourself on a foundation where if you see that something might cause you any pain and/or alter your well-being, to be able to remove yourself from that and keep your peace and have healthy emotions. A am also no saying that you shouldn't push yourself for any relationship or something, but to have your love for a partner, friend or family member within reason, and set boundaries, not for them but for yourself. I have a friend who i care for dearly who I have seen pine after someone for 12 years, 12!! A DECADE! and I have talked to her repeatedly about how it closing yourself to only 1 person will limit you on in your love life (btw they've confessed, 4 times.) And they've answered me, saying, "I can't control my heart, it has to be them" and my answer to that is a psychologist, it is not healthy to be fixated on someone so much be it for a month or 13 years. Love just like any other emotion should be felt within reason, if you see yourself neglecting basic needs be it emotional, social, or mental, you need the guidance of a professional
Idk who needs to hear this but please do not fall !madly! In love with someone. Loving someone to a point where you are compromising your personal, economic, and emotional, well-being is not ok, you need to hold yourself in a higher place than others. By saying this, I am not saying to hold yourself in similar esteem to a ruler/deity, but to place yourself on a foundation where if you see that something might cause you any pain and/or alter your well-being, to be able to remove yourself from that and keep your peace and have healthy emotions. A am also no saying that you shouldn't push yourself for any relationship or something, but to have your love for a partner, friend or family member within reason, and set boundaries, not for them but for yourself. I have a friend who i care for dearly who I have seen pine after someone for 12 years, 12!! A DECADE! and I have talked to her repeatedly about how it closing yourself to only 1 person will limit you on in your love life (btw they've confessed, 4 times.) And they've answered me, saying, "I can't control my heart, it has to be them" and my answer to that is a psychologist, it is not healthy to be fixated on someone so much be it for a month or 13 years. Love just like any other emotion should be felt within reason, if you see yourself neglecting basic needs be it emotional, social, or mental, you need the guidance of a professional