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I regret rejecting a confession

nana October 14, 2017 5:52 pm

This is irrelevant but i just wanna get it out of my chest. Last year a guy in my class told me he has a crush on me and asked me out. He's tall, smart and love anime/manga just like me. It's very rare for Cambodian to enjoy these so I was surprised. He confessed twice but I rejected both time. Why? I don't wanna date him because I'm an unloyal piece of shit and i wanna befriend him so we could talk about our common interest. I knew our relationship won't last long so I rejected. Now he has a girlfriend (also an unloyal bitch, even worse than me) and somehow it annoys me. I'm still not certain what kind of feeling i have toward him. I'm so selfish fuck me.

edit: oops seems like everybody hate me now lol its okay i hate myself too. anyway just to clear thing up no I'm not gonna go out of my way to break them up. I'm horrible but not to that extend. i don't steal other people's man even if they're my enemy. I'm just sharing this because i want to?

Responses
    Okarisu October 14, 2017 4:00 pm

    Well, if things don't work out with his girlfriend, wait a while and then say that you're interested. Just don't be surprised if he ends up getting a little angry that you changed your mind after rejecting him twice. Though I wouldn't make a move while he's currently dating someone. Maybe try and be friends with him first if you aren't already, talk about anime and stuff, and see if you start feeling anything else.

    Hisa October 14, 2017 4:04 pm

    wow this sounds like a manga

    ...good luck

    Yao-zers October 14, 2017 5:22 pm

    yeah fuck you too that has nothing to do with loyalty and you even called his girlfriend a bitch?? wtf man that's just jealousy if i were him i think i would've ignored you for the whole school year and only now do you regret it and think your relationship would work???

    nana October 14, 2017 5:37 pm
    yeah fuck you too that has nothing to do with loyalty and you even called his girlfriend a bitch?? wtf man that's just jealousy if i were him i think i would've ignored you for the whole school year and only no... Yao-zers

    woah calm down I'm calling his girlfriend a bitch for a reason. its not really jealousy. i don't understand why he date her even though the whole school know what she's like. u know the two face type, nobody likes her (maybe boys do) she's always alone. I'm a bad person i know but i don't hide it. also its not like i want to break them up or anything i do know i don't stand a chance haha i just wish he could've ended up with someone better (and not my enemy lol)

    supremecurt October 14, 2017 5:39 pm

    Sounds like possessiveness. You just want someone to talk to and you're annoyed that that person is with someone else now. Seems like it wouldn't matter if it's exactly that person or not, as long as it's someone with the same interest as you.

    nana October 14, 2017 5:41 pm
    Well, if things don't work out with his girlfriend, wait a while and then say that you're interested. Just don't be surprised if he ends up getting a little angry that you changed your mind after rejecting him ... Okarisu

    thanks for the advice. i honestly don't know why I wrote this. i won't have the courage to confess to him after rejecting him not once but twice. isn't that a bit weird? I've been thinking about this a lot so maybe i just need someone to talk to.

    nana October 14, 2017 5:47 pm
    Sounds like possessiveness. You just want someone to talk to and you're annoyed that that person is with someone else now. Seems like it wouldn't matter if it's exactly that person or not, as long as it's someo... supremecurt

    It's cool to date someone with the same interest don't you think? anyway that's not the point. We didn't know each other that well a year ago. He literally just transferred to my school so when he confessed of course i can't immediately have feelings for him. I rejected him nicely tho and said let's be friend for now. what i meant was let's get to know each other more but he went and dated 2 other girls right after i rejected (one of them is my friend too TT) so i can't help but feel uneasy.

    nana October 14, 2017 5:49 pm
    wow this sounds like a manga...good luck @Hisa

    luck hates me

    Yandere chan October 14, 2017 6:13 pm

    I really wanted to ask why is she a bitch because the school says it or you do know she is a bitch ?

    supremecurt October 14, 2017 6:13 pm
    It's cool to date someone with the same interest don't you think? anyway that's not the point. We didn't know each other that well a year ago. He literally just transferred to my school so when he confessed of ... nana

    Oh wow. He confessed to you right after transferring? Then he dated TWO girls after you rejected him? Well... he's just a fuckboi I guess? Not sure if that's worth wasting feelings over

    mu-chan October 14, 2017 6:35 pm

    Aw come one... Just forget about him and cheer for him honestly... Wether it will work or not between them, that s not your business anymore. You choosed to rejected him, so be a good girl, and let him go already. Thats just your ego speaking rn..! I dun hate you, but i think you should grown up a little. No hard feeling

    New October 14, 2017 6:52 pm

    To me sounds if you where scared to like him so you went the friend root but if you know that the girl is bad for him say that to him he won't believe you but when he breakup with her be there but never ever say told you so to him. Still be the friend later be the girlfriend. I don't think you will hurt him when you are with him because you are mad for him about the bad girlfriend. So good luck

    nana October 14, 2017 7:08 pm
    I really wanted to ask why is she a bitch because the school says it or you do know she is a bitch ? Yandere chan

    i really don't want to expose her but i'll tell you a few things. She's straight up fake and disrespectful. I'm her senior. She uses honorifics in front of me but drop it behind my back. She seduce every guys she see. Even my guys friend are creeped out by her. She speaks in an overly high pitched voice when everyone knows its not what she normally sounds like. She's a show off. blah blah i could go on and on about her attitude all day.

    nana October 14, 2017 7:12 pm
    Oh wow. He confessed to you right after transferring? Then he dated TWO girls after you rejected him? Well... he's just a fuckboi I guess? Not sure if that's worth wasting feelings over supremecurt

    i really wish he's not a fuckboy. I always tell myself maybe i hurt his feelings so he's just trying to forget about me. And if he really is a fuckboy then our relationship is going to be even more fun. I can teach him a few lessons. Fuckboys don't mess with me. umm I'm going off topic again sorry xx

    nana October 14, 2017 7:18 pm
    Aw come one... Just forget about him and cheer for him honestly... Wether it will work or not between them, that s not your business anymore. You choosed to rejected him, so be a good girl, and let him go alrea... mu-chan

    How can I forget about about him when I see him 5 hours a day and 6 days a week? When I go to the canteen, I see him with the girl. When I walk back to class, I see him with the girl. When I come outside to get some fresh air, I see him with the girl. When I go to the bathroom, they were speaking right next to the door. I swear I'll go mad. But you're funny thanks for making laugh I guess.

    nana October 14, 2017 7:22 pm
    To me sounds if you where scared to like him so you went the friend root but if you know that the girl is bad for him say that to him he won't believe you but when he breakup with her be there but never ever sa... New

    You maybe right. I was scares to hurt him I guess. I did mention I'm a pretty bad person so I might give him a hard time. If fall for him later on, then I won't betray him but who knows I don't trust people easily. He confessed to me when I had no idea who he is. Thank you for the advice TT

    mu-chan October 14, 2017 7:56 pm
    How can I forget about about him when I see him 5 hours a day and 6 days a week? When I go to the canteen, I see him with the girl. When I walk back to class, I see him with the girl. When I come outside to get... nana

    The enemy is though, huh.. i'll give you my secret weapon then. Just pray ..! PRAY.. Fufu~ i experienced a veeery hurt broken heart back then. I thought at that time i couldnt bear anymore, and i just prayed to God that i didnt want to feel that pain anymore. Miracle happened you know. You dont need to be religious or to be a saint. Just a little pray will do. You must be thinking it is confusing for the fact that i pray. But yep.. I prayed that time. And my broken heart healed in 1 week

    nana October 14, 2017 8:05 pm
    The enemy is though, huh.. i'll give you my secret weapon then. Just pray ..! PRAY.. Fufu~ i experienced a veeery hurt broken heart back then. I thought at that time i couldnt bear anymore, and i just prayed t... mu-chan

    I get over broken heart quickly thanks to a scar from my first love. I'm not heart broken because of him. I do believe praying helps but there's nothing to pray for to begin with. I might feel better if he dated somebody else that is not my enemy

    mu-chan October 14, 2017 8:18 pm
    I get over broken heart quickly thanks to a scar from my first love. I'm not heart broken because of him. I do believe praying helps but there's nothing to pray for to begin with. I might feel better if he date... nana

    His gf rn is your enemy..? Damn.. you hate the girl so much, huh.. Now i must tell you this, is she really worth it..? For you to hate her..? Aw come on, she is juat a nobody, you are more than her.. Just imagine she is a kind of a fly, or mosquito.. She even doesnt worth to be hate for. You know, he confessed to you 2 times ..! 2 times. And the girl merely accpted him after you rejected him.. So.. Still think the girl in the same league as you..?

    Okarisu October 14, 2017 10:18 pm
    thanks for the advice. i honestly don't know why I wrote this. i won't have the courage to confess to him after rejecting him not once but twice. isn't that a bit weird? I've been thinking about this a lot so m... nana

    Nah, you'd be surprised. I mean, there are people who are now happily married after having originally rejected their SO-to-be multiple times.