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Do people actually get off by thinking of their crushes? And do girls (or gays) prefer big dicks?

Bird October 17, 2017 7:39 pm

This is a question for all the straight, gay and bi people out there. I've read a lot of romance/smut (both mangas of various genres and normal books) where a person will think of the person they're in love with when they masturbate, and i was wondering if this was something people usually do, or just added in for dramatic effect? I've also noticed that most people seem to think the bigger the dick, the better (especially boys). This seems pretty irrational to me, as i'd think that a smaller dick would be less of a burden to the vagina/ass, but i'm wondering if straight girls/gay boys actually prefers them to be big?
sincerely, ace girl ( ̄∇ ̄")

Responses
    Lololala October 17, 2017 7:48 pm

    Sup, gay girl here, can’t say much abt dicks but as for me personally, I couldn’t masturbate just to the thought of a person... like it’s just not enough stimulation? Idk ^-^
    I’m interested in what other ppl have to say though~

    salmafujoshi October 17, 2017 8:07 pm

    a follow ace girl as well, and I've never masturbated in my 21 years old in this life. So I'm interested to see the answers (≧∀≦)

    Fly high October 17, 2017 8:13 pm

    Don't know...... Virgin here........... Let's see what experience holder's will say

    月島 蛍 October 17, 2017 8:16 pm

    I'm an ace girl as well, 19. And I actually do masturbate but I don't really think about anyone or anything. Masturbation is an act od self pleasing. It has nothing to do with sex. In my case, I just focus on my good spots and that's it.

    miusaski October 17, 2017 8:55 pm

    I once masturbated (didn't feel really pleasuring so i stopped XD i'm not a slave to pleasure) and i dont think about anybody, its kind of just doing it for myself. I'm asexual so I do have fetishes and whatever like a normal person (just wouldn't wanna do it in real life) but i don't understand why people would like big dicks as well, haha although its nice to brag about it would be hard to deal with as the bottom

    I Went From Chan To Sama October 17, 2017 8:58 pm

    20 year old girl, I guess I'm straight since my partners have been men. When it comes to masterbating the thought of my boyfriend normally isn't enough honestly. I need visual aids. When it comes to big dicks, I don't like them. They hurt me. What's more important to me is girth rather than length. So I say 6 inches is best. Hopes this helps your curiosity (●'◡'●)ノ

    Akikosenpai October 17, 2017 9:01 pm

    Lesbian girl here. (20 in a few days) Obviously can't say anything about penis sizes either lol.. But about the masturbating part... Actually, last time when I was in love, I did try masturbating to the thought of her, but it just felt a little too awkward to go too far, so I stopped halfway, and the next day I couldn't even look at her, lol. It just didn't feel right somehow? I think, that however, if I had actually been in a relationship with her, I would have done it without second thought lol, but without being in a relationship with her, it felt like overstepping my boundaries somehow? Like I was... idk defiling my thought of her? idk what I'm even trying to say here actually XD Imagining myself kissing her was no problem, just ... doing more in my head was weird, because I knew she didn't like me like that.... Does this make sense somehow? It's definitely not because I'm too innocent or something like that, I've masturbated to porn and all before haha ( ̄ε(# ̄)Σ

    chopsuey October 17, 2017 9:23 pm
    Sup, gay girl here, can’t say much abt dicks but as for me personally, I couldn’t masturbate just to the thought of a person... like it’s just not enough stimulation? Idk ^-^ I’m interested in what othe... Lololala

    Bi, 20 here I agree with Lololala lol just the thought of the person is not enough I guess? And also it's a bit awky for me lol I need something more passionate I guess.. ohom
    (〜 ̄△ ̄)〜 Except for that when it comes to penis size it doesn't matter to me really like for example Westerners' penises yes larger than majority of East Asian countries but most when it's hard can be jelly like (ugh i even disgusted myself with this comparison i am dying why am i writing this omfg) and like East Asian penises (as far as my little experience goes) are hard when it's hard not like jelly like (i am lit dying ) So more than the size the effectiveness is better I guess??

    Hawtpisces272 October 17, 2017 9:36 pm

    Masturbate to the thought of a person? Nayyy never worked for me. Rather i tend to get more turned on when I think about the hot smexy scenes from my favourite yaoi mangas (≧∀≦) Not my fault that my pervy mind prefers gay scenes Kayyy? ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭ I'm straight though.

    Corvus October 17, 2017 10:14 pm

    Hi, i'm 19 and i'm a dude.
    It's hard for me to get aroused at the thought of someone while I masturbate. I need to watch porn or read some erotic mangas.
    Personally, I like big dicks but not exaggeratedly, like a 10 cm one. That'd be a killing machine and would give me a pain in the butthole. For me, it needs to be a little bit thick and long.
    Yeah, i'm hella picky when it comes to penises.

    mouss October 19, 2017 1:58 am
    I'm an ace girl as well, 19. And I actually do masturbate but I don't really think about anyone or anything. Masturbation is an act od self pleasing. It has nothing to do with sex. In my case, I just focus on m... 月島 蛍

    sorry for my lack of culture but what does "ace girl" mean?
    just curious...

    Anonymous October 19, 2017 2:30 am

    Demisexual girl here! I masturbate, but I don't think about my crush. What I do is read something hot (you know what I mean) from Haikyuu doujinshis to 50 shades of Gray, imagine the scene and get off. Sometimes I like to exercise my imagination and think about some of my fetish (and yes you can be ace and get all hot and bothered about something) and imagine a couple making out. Of course sometimes I like to imagine myself in the place of some characters, but I get more excited with the text/imagine

    Anonymous October 19, 2017 2:38 am
    Demisexual girl here! I masturbate, but I don't think about my crush. What I do is read something hot (you know what I mean) from Haikyuu doujinshis to 50 shades of Gray, imagine the scene and get off. Sometime... @Anonymous

    And about the penises... I don't know, maybe it's a fetish or something, guys are a little obssessed with their penis size, believe me, if you want to pick a fight with a guy, just say his penis is tiny (even if you don't know). About hurt their partner, I think you can injure your uke/gf if you put without preparation and lubrification (what am I saying?), if you just be gentle and patient it's gonna be okay... at least it was what my bi friend said to me when I asked him how things worked between to guys and if it doesn't hurt when your partner put. LOL

    Fly high October 19, 2017 4:38 am

    Bigger dick r not........ Just wanna know does it hurts for guys when a guy put their dick in their ass??and does it feel good???

    Corvus October 19, 2017 5:09 am
    Bigger dick r not........ Just wanna know does it hurts for guys when a guy put their dick in their ass??and does it feel good??? Fly high

    Why don't you girls try it yourself to know whether it feels good or not?

    Fly high October 19, 2017 5:37 am
    Why don't you girls try it yourself to know whether it feels good or not? Corvus

    Naahhh....... If you can't tell us then don't....Just wanna know bcoz in manga it's hurt and then they started feeling good..l know it's fiction .that why l ask.....I'm not that Curious to lend my ass to someone just to know..... Thanks for your advice

    Bird October 19, 2017 7:55 am
    sorry for my lack of culture but what does "ace girl" mean? just curious... mouss

    that she's ace means that she's asexual (=・ω・=)

    mouss October 19, 2017 10:23 am
    that she's ace means that she's asexual (=・ω・=) Bird

    oooh thank you!

    Corvus October 19, 2017 5:42 pm
    Naahhh....... If you can't tell us then don't....Just wanna know bcoz in manga it's hurt and then they started feeling good..l know it's fiction .that why l ask.....I'm not that Curious to lend my ass to someon... Fly high

    Sorry if you got offended my love, it wasn't my intention. But I never meant to say that you should lend your ass to someone just to experience anal sex.
    Well, i've experienced it and my first time did hurt a little because me and my partner were both unexperienced and didn't exactly know what to do. We didn't have lube at that moment so I had to masturbate with my fingers to stretch it out.
    It felt horrible at the start, but after a few times doing it, the pain decreased and it felt good. I think it's different for everyone so that's my own experience.

    Fly high October 19, 2017 6:29 pm
    Sorry if you got offended my love, it wasn't my intention. But I never meant to say that you should lend your ass to someone just to experience anal sex.Well, i've experienced it and my first time did hurt a li... Corvus

    If that's not your intention, then it's alright.. And thank you for sharing your experience....