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I love that everyone is soooo pissed on the couple in the last story, but for me i cried b...

LadyAmethyst October 29, 2017 8:27 am

I love that everyone is soooo pissed on the couple in the last story, but for me i cried because i can related to that. The difference is i already broke up with my ex after 7yrs together. Here's my opinion for anyone in their 3rd years of relationship but having more or less the same situations like the last story....you can make it work or you can make it worse.

I'm sure there's a time where one experience a worse breakup & makeup situation..which usually after a constant of 'negative things' happened. But when the couple overcome those 'hardship', after that change to be better people and compromise in other things...the relationship will work. Not saying their life won't have a problem in the future in terms of working or living in the conservative/double standard society or having a spat or two etc...but they will overcome it together and live with each other forever.

BUT if it's otherwise, I'm telling you the negatives will keep repeating itself and got way worse...until the both of them become tired of it. This is the time when one of the couple or both of them feel like they're wasting times. Usually they tend to think they should have a clean breakup back when shit got worse the first time. But since it's too late, the breakup can get real messy..and can make a person's feeling go numb or give a mentally unstable.

Im saying this because i experienced it just like the couple in the last story. But mine is worse than them, and we should have a clean breakup in our 3rd years. I emphasize that because that's the max limit for 'honeymoon' phase. Lol. I'm not the only one experienced it as that also happened to few people i know that had their heart broken and have to wait for a few years before they start to actually met a good person they married with. But the one i envy is the couple that can overcome their first worse situation, and they make it work like it never happened and live happily with kids and still very much in love with each other. Yes i met these people, one of em is my cousin and his wife, the other one is my gay friends and the rest is just acquaintance.

That's why it made me cried, because i experienced it yet I'm not lucky to have a great ending like certain couples. Also it made me envy those people who finally found the right one after experienced their worse romance ever. Am i feeling lonely? Lol. But i do feel glad the author make that story; it's like telling the world there is that kind of relationship and whether it works in the end or not, will be up to you and you partner and what you both really want.

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