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Hi people. I have this one problem. I have a friend, with whom I am writing on messenger. ...

H-Hime December 12, 2017 11:09 pm

Hi people.
I have this one problem.
I have a friend, with whom I am writing on messenger. But I tend to write a lot and she is not replying already for three days.
She is not ignoring me, bc we are going to school together and we talk normally.
I just started to wonder if she finds it bothersome to read my long texts.
Yesterday she told me that the day before she was very bored and that she tried something new, but she didn't bother to write me back.
I do not try to blame her or anything, I just want to know if these long texts are bothersome and if should try to write her less.

Responses
    Miyo December 12, 2017 11:20 pm

    Maybe she doesn't know what to say ^^ Is it about an awkward topic? She probably is embarrassed cause she is your friend so she wants to support you but she doesn't know how...You should talk about it with her, but not a heavy conversation ^^! Like "by the way, did you read my text?"

    imbecile testicles December 12, 2017 11:22 pm

    don't talk formally and use emojis and don't make your texts too long, long formal texts makes you seem old somewhat idk lol, also try not to be sincere or super polite just talk normal. If she still doesn't reply then ask her why or convince yourself that she hates you and cry forever

    Pacgirl December 12, 2017 11:27 pm

    Okay, well I don't really know your friends personality so I guess I'll make assumptions.
    I'm really not good at texting people online. I also sometimes forget that I never replied to them, or I'll be watching a movie or something then I'll get a notification and I'll think, "I'll answer whatever it is later" then I just end up forgetting.
    With my friends in real life, since I know I'll see them tomorrow I sometimes don't reply immediately. I prefer talking in real life than texting.
    So if she's kinda like me, she probably doesn't find it "bothersome" but she forgets, or thinks she can talk about it tomorrow in person.

    H-Hime December 12, 2017 11:40 pm
    Maybe she doesn't know what to say ^^ Is it about an awkward topic? She probably is embarrassed cause she is your friend so she wants to support you but she doesn't know how...You should talk about it with her,... Miyo

    Most of my texts are just stupid comments on things so I do not think so...but there was one thing we were discussing which she might find unpleasant.

    H-Hime December 12, 2017 11:40 pm
    don't talk formally and use emojis and don't make your texts too long, long formal texts makes you seem old somewhat idk lol, also try not to be sincere or super polite just talk normal. If she still doesn't re... imbecile testicles

    Most of my comments are just some stupid comments and some funny photos

    H-Hime December 12, 2017 11:41 pm
    Okay, well I don't really know your friends personality so I guess I'll make assumptions. I'm really not good at texting people online. I also sometimes forget that I never replied to them, or I'll be watching ... Pacgirl

    Might be it :/ thanks

    chizaman December 12, 2017 11:52 pm

    tbh I'm the kind of person who reads texts but takes a long time to reply. It's not because I'm deliberately ignoring them, but because I put a lot of unnecessary thought into my replies and sometimes just find it too stressful to bother.

    Anonymous December 13, 2017 12:03 am
    tbh I'm the kind of person who reads texts but takes a long time to reply. It's not because I'm deliberately ignoring them, but because I put a lot of unnecessary thought into my replies and sometimes just find... chizaman

    You must be fun at parties

    chizaman December 13, 2017 12:25 am
    You must be fun at parties @Anonymous

    I wouldn't know. I never attend them ( ̄∇ ̄")

    TheYoungWeeb December 13, 2017 12:57 am

    Maybe break your texts into smaller parts and wait for her to reply first before writing more just to make sure your on the same page

    Pacgirl December 13, 2017 1:14 am
    You must be fun at parties @Anonymous

    Texting parties? Since the subject is texting. Online parties I guess. If that's a thing.