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I always wanted to ask this

Raven January 7, 2018 11:34 am

Does a guy being feminine equal to being gay?? like i always here my friends that ''this guy is so girly.. i bet he is gay''.. so i always wondered if femininity is somewhat connected to being gay cause i personally think that its not connected ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭

Enlighten me guys

Responses
    A January 7, 2018 11:42 am

    Nope, if females are masculine does that make them Lez? I don't think so. There are many feminine guys and masculine girlies out there. But it's still dumb to assume someone's sexuality based on how they act or look, lmao.

    Anonymous January 7, 2018 11:54 am

    They can be both feminine and gay or not.Being feminine is not strictly based on sexual orientation or gender identity.The stereotypes are too bad but similarly femininephobia is also too bad
    and unfortunately most gay folks and yaoi readers are femininephobic and transphobic ( ̄へ ̄)

    daynight January 7, 2018 11:56 am

    Nah that's just being homophobic and mysogynistic.

    tsukki January 7, 2018 11:59 am

    No, not really. I think it's such a wrong old-fashioned way of thinking that we can judge someone's sexuality based on how they act. Not to mention it's a very rude thing to do.

    senaxeth January 7, 2018 12:03 pm

    Nah. That is so common nowadays and I think it stems from the picture that a male must be sturdy, hard, shows no emotions etc. and if the male starts to drift from the norms, they're separated and their sexuality were automatically labeled as being gay. I knew guys that are "manly" but are actually gays so I don't think there are a definite actions/looks that determines the sexuality of a person. (except you know, you ask them or you see them hooking up with the same gender)

    Raven January 7, 2018 12:06 pm
    Nope, if females are masculine does that make them Lez? I don't think so. There are many feminine guys and masculine girlies out there. But it's still dumb to assume someone's sexuality based on how they act or... @A

    I know right lool.. they are my friends but sometimes i think they're dumb and close minded ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭

    A January 7, 2018 12:14 pm
    I know right lool.. they are my friends but sometimes i think they're dumb and close minded ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭ Raven

    Ikr https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/c37b81d287a779a8c1acca2b3d68fbfb544e3d58630c4741296dcb7a16cb8829.gif

    Pacgirl January 7, 2018 4:33 pm

    Bruh I know the feel, my friend who claims to be a feminist said the same thing. I gave her the look of disappointment and shock, and we sat down and had a long talk.