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ya but I feel more sorry for the mom.....
At least the mum had her kids. The guy was kinda a douche to her but a part of me feels that if he ended up with the aunt. The person he actually LIKES he may have acted differently. In the end the aunt lost a chance of having her own family. I'm sure she's over it but so many what ifs. Only if the mum wasn't selfish.
Ya but like why would you go for your sister's bf? The aunt was right not to go for him. Both of them should've ditched the guy. That would've been a power move. Also, the dad did say he was glad they didn't end up together afterwards seeing that she's happy now.
I don't blame the mom for being selfish. Imagine loving a guy mutually and then after he meets ur sis, he goes for her. That would suck
She wasn't even given a chance to go for him. It was clear from the start she was very confident in herself (borderline arrogant) Everything went right for her, her whole life. The only misstep was her bf falling in love with her sister. Which she didn't take well as seen when she didn't even allow her sister to reply to him before she kinda started to beg and cry telling him not to leave her. The guy did do the wrong thing by marrying her but the mum did screw over any chance of her sister having any sort of future. She does regret it in the future cause she grew up from her naive mindset. I do think the aunt would've rejected the guy at first cause no one wants to go for their sisters ex but I feel he would've tried pursuing her and eventually maybe the aunt would've given into him. Maybe they also would've ended in divorce, maybe not. We'll never know cause the mum was immature and the guy was not true to himself.
Wait hold the fuck on. The mom didn’t screw the sister future up AT ALL. That guy wasn’t the only man in the sea. The aunt could have marry someone and been happy. Just because she had one heartbreak doesn’t mean she can stop loving/dating all together. The aunt could have found someone if she wanted to she chose not to. It’s such a stupid thing for you to blame the mom for THE AUNT misfortunes. The mother was literally being dump by that guy after he proposed to her because he loved her sister. That fucked up and i will forever be on the mom side even if you believe she acted “immature and selfish” that was the man SHE loved/was dating who she spent half her life with only to discover he loves her sister. That heartbreaking for anyone. She loved him and didn’t want to lose him. The father should have just frimly rejected her instead of giving in and marrying her. And if the sister did marry him i would lose all respect for her.
I would never ever date my sister ex/current boyfriend. That so shady and disgusting. Even if i did have feelings for him i would never be with him. I will move on and find a better guy. First off the way he broken up with the mom was horrible. Right in front of her parents.
Unbelievable how you’re blaming the mom for messing up the sister life when the sister fucked up her own life.
PREACH!
For all we know that guy COULD'VE been the one for her, we don't know that cause of the sister the flip side is that their relationship could've ended up with a divorce we will NEVER know cause of sister. It's clear the aunt wasn't the type to be interested in guys and vice versa. The shock and embarrassment when he confessed to the aunt says it all imo. Remember this is my imo from 201888 quick maths that was 3 years ago. I don't think it was ever mentioned if she had spent HALF her life with considering she was maybe mid/ late 20s so another quick maths if she spent half her life with me she would've been at least 15 at the time of them starting dating probably younger. 100% sister messed up her own life even harder than her sisters. Thanks so much on your opinion 3 years on you really helped in not changing my opinion at all. Just made me more annoyed at the sister again and recemented my opinion, thanks.
Also I've said this to my sisters and best friend. If a boyfriend of mine catches feelings for them and it's mutual. Don't let me stop them cause I care about their happiness. I know I'll EVENTUALLY get over my own feelings, that's what people do. I may ask them not to be around me as a couple while I still got feelings but I would NEVER kick up a fuss like the sister maybe it's cause I realise life will not always go my way unlike the younger version of the sister.
Lmao okay have fun having your boyfriend/girlfriend dump you for your sister or your best friend. That won’t be surprising.
It’s still disgusting how you’re blaming the mom for the SISTER misfortunes. The sister chose to give up the mother DIDNT make her do it. She a GROWN ASS WOMAN who can move on after a heartbreak and if she didn’t then that’s just sad. She could also think about him but move on to a nice guy have a happy family. The mother never made the sister a loner the sister did that all on her own.
Instead of blaming the mother blame the father. He could have been more frim and broke up with her for the sister but he married her and they both been unhappy. The father is more at fault then the mom or aunt. But clearly you just like to blame the mom because “she was selfish” just because she was selfish doesn’t mean he have to listen he could honestly left her for her sister and gave her sister that “happy” life.
Most people would be angry or selfish when the person they love is in love with their sister. Not everyone is gonna willingly give up on the person they love and was gonna marry especially for their sister. Hell it would have been better if they both dump that man and moved on. You clearly didn’t read or understand shit i said and you didn’t grow at all in “3 years” how sad. You should grow and mature a bit before you read a realistic story because clearly you’re gonna blame people for other misfortunes. It’s okay though kiddo your brain just need some more growth. ╮(￣▽￣)╭
omg she blocked me after crying over her own opinions I wrote a response so Imma still post it
o no I lost it rip. It was very funny if I do say so myself.
I feel kinda sorry for the aunt.