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Is having a fetish a bad thing? Because I told to some of my friends about them and they s...

Yuki January 19, 2018 6:02 pm

Is having a fetish a bad thing? Because I told to some of my friends about them and they said that it’s disgusting and I shouldn’t go around and tell people about it...

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    ebjean January 19, 2018 6:12 pm

    Nothing wrong with having them, as long as they're healthy ones, causing no harm to you or anyone else, and involving full consent of any involved parties, and as long as you are old enough. Not normally something one goes around casually telling people, though. I have only told one of my friends any of mine, and we've had a very close relationship for almost 15 years.

    Wth January 19, 2018 6:13 pm

    Why would it be disgusting when everyone has them? This is like saying you have a nose you're disgusting. ( ̄へ ̄)Seriously maybe they don't know their fetish yet but they will understand one day. Don't worry about it and you can talk about this topic with people who has the ability to understand instead of them

    chey January 19, 2018 6:14 pm

    it's def not a bad thing! but you probably shouldn't, like,,, bring it up or discuss it unless you're with someone who won't make you feel guilty about it. as long as your partner has agreed, it's totally fine to do any thype of play.

    Wth January 19, 2018 6:19 pm
    Why would it be disgusting when everyone has them? This is like saying you have a nose you're disgusting. ( ̄へ ̄)Seriously maybe they don't know their fetish yet but they will understand one day. Don't... @Wth

    Ok I went too far sorry I know they are your friends. If you want to talk about fetishes do it with your partner or other people with fetishes

    Anonymous January 19, 2018 7:01 pm

    First of all I doubt you actually have a fetish. Most people have a certain preference or they are into something and boom they label it a fetish. I'm pretty sure whatever yours is is kinda innocent and probably wouldn't be considered a fetish.
    Second of all you're probably quite young and so are your friends so you probably just grossed them out by talking about things you and them don't understand.
    So basically don't just go around telling people you have fetishes because it seems cool. It might not seem so from the manga on this site but in reality fetishes aren't that common. Most people don't have them and that's fine. Don't confuse preference or being into something with a fetish.

    SugarySuga January 19, 2018 9:05 pm

    It isn't a bad thing, but you really shouldn't go around telling people those kinds of things unless you're sure that they're comfortable with hearing about it. Personal topics like that may make many people feel awkward