http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/eigyou_nika/
This one's my absolute favourite!
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/hana_wa_saku_ka/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/kiss_made_ato_3_senchi/
I'm not sure if these are exactly non-objectifying but I base them on the fact that both guys love and treasure each others tremendously.
http://www.mangago.me/people/tag/191091/Sweet+love/?page=1
(here's a long list for more)
And the one with the energetic uke and hearing impaired seme is
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/hidamari_ga_kikoeru/
Aaaaaand I'm eternally in love with this one:
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/the_same_time_as_always_the_same_place_as_always/
Seven Days
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/aozora_no_sunda_iro_wa/
And Hidamari ga Kikoeru... maybe?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PfkiD2ShI5A
HONTO YAJUU
I'm liking your taste but it's a hard search for manga that doesn't have at least parts of those elements tbh. your cousin isn't really wrong.
the first 4 chapters of this yaoi is pretty good with tossing aside a lot of the stereotypes of yaoi. I'm not sure I would recommend the other chapters because I haven't read them.
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/eroman_kami_to_pen_to_sex_to/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/never_understand/
This next isn't light, but it's very engaging. I'm sure you're going to say, "I already know about that one." http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/geu_kkeute_issneun_geos/
19 Days http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/19_days/
good suggestion Anon: http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/honto_yajuu/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/shiro_no_koro/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/kurayami_ni_strobe/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/amadare_no_koro/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/dasadanan/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/unriped_expression/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/kazoku_ni_narouyo/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/guang_xiang/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/yamada_to_shounen/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/bukiyo_na_bokura_no_sukima/
Awkward silence. It's a bit heavy on the sex but consensual, sweet, and a bit dramatic but easily solved.
Great lists
hey there, J Unleashed.
Yo, Raindragon. Whatcha been up to?
Hi guys!! Ik that the request in my title seems like a lot to handle, but I really need to convince my cousin that all yaoi manga aren't bad, objectifying, with cold men and pwp (not to say that I dislike pwp, but y'know. He does.). Does anyone have a good recommendation for a shounen ai or soft-core yaoi that fits the description?
Also, one of my friends talked about a famous yaoi, which will be/has been turned into a movie, about a deaf seme and an energetic uke. If you know which one it is, please tell me the name.