Just what did the Uke expect when he went to his stalker's house?

Exactly and not only that he brought alcohol as well.....

Seriously? That was fucking gross. So you can't expect men to restrain their dicks when they're in love with someone? Or is it just that as per usual men must never be held accountable for their behavior? Misogynistic victim blaming much?

He went to his stalker's home. That he knew stalked him. He was digging his own grave. A normal person vs a stalker is totally different.

this isnt some normal guy, it’s literally his STALKER. he should know that he’s messed up just from that fact.

You understand that this is yaoi right? If you don't like it you don't have to read it, but this kind of stuff happens all the time in yaoi, it's not a new thing