I can’t think of any manhwas whit a seme like the kind you want, but here are some manhwas more romance-oriented, maybe it’ll help you... even though I’m not really answering your question lol sorry
Roommates is my absolute favourite, 10/10 recommend, very fluffy and romantic and I don’t even think it has any smut scenes in it (if I recall correctly)
Heaven&Hell Roman Company is lovely too
Ordinary men and Here U are are also amazing imo, but they’re still pretty fresh and the plot has yet to really tgicken in them haha, but there is relationship development
30 days with you.
seme: "You don't really get me in the mood" (ch. 3)
The past few manhwas I’ve read have been, not only really dark, but also very sexual. I understand that’s mainly the point in yaoi, but I still want to see some romance, which is why I’m looking for a manhwa (preferably korean styled) that has a very cool seme that doesn’t want to have sex as fast as others, like “Kiseon” from “If you hate me that much”.