What an idiot lol, I mean yeah it is possible tomate a guy you just met ... If it's for nothing serious ... IDK I just don't believe in people, if the same thing happened to me I'd do the same thing ... Nah I wouldn't even give him my Instagram account , like who the fuck is he? A stalker or sth? Wtf
Yeah... that guy sounds like a douche, honestly. Rule number 1: You don’t try to hook up with people, especially girls, at the gym while people are trying to work out. It’s just not cool. And instantly trying to compliment you like that, and wanting to date you without knowing anything about you? Pretty shady. And willing you his friends thought you were ugly was probably just a last-ditch lie to get under your skin since his tactics clearly weren’t working. I’m glad it ended safely for you, and if I can recommend some good stuff, I’m not sure what you’re into, but:
BJ Alex
Peach Love
Sign Language
Scent of a Witch
and Ordinary Men are a couple of good ones.
Wow, that's so... pitiful. Usually they try to at least invite you for a coffee before they make any offers (and it always boils down to sex, sometimes under the guise of "dating" if they have little confidence).
Glad you dealt with him. Be careful of giving your contact info to strangers, goodness knows what they'll do with it. And don't be afraid to be a little rude if you need to shoot a guy down - I found out that being friendly is usually misread as being interested. If he approaches you based on looks, he doesn't want to be friends.
Protect your heart!! Don't go along with someone's pace like that LMAO bruh even yaoi stories have more of a decent start than that zz Don't give your contact and reject a creep like that and do whatever it takes for him to fuck off
Dudeee a similar thing happened to Me, some guy texted me in the middle of the night 2 days after I met him about how much he liked me and how special I was and it annoyed the crap out of me.
Let's say we both learned our lesson to not give our info out to random dudes, especially if they're super forward like that ╮(￣▽￣)╭
Update: Now he is ok with staying as a friend.
Is he retarded?
He is going to cry Again when I reject him for the second time, I'm probably going to block him too... Meh
Whatever (●￣(ｴ)￣●)
He underestimated the power of a fujoshi too much
Thank you for the answer, and the manga it made me really happy.
Ahahahah that was the first thing that popped up in my mind when he asked for my instagram
Thank you very much for the answer it made me really happy. You know, from the answer you sound like a really good person, so I will call you anonymous mama (I call you the same if you're a guy, cauz i think daddy is too much ahahah).
So... Yesterday at the gym, this guy came out to me and asked for my Instagram, at first I rejected him, then, after he insisted a few more time I ended up telling him my account. In the afternoon he give me his number and we started talking and chatting. Today we talked again and he often complimented me about my look (I consider myself an average girl), and he has never hide the fact that he liked me, telling me he liked me and already planning our future together. And I was like DuDe calm down! I've met you yesterday how can you say all those things. This evening I completely rejected him telling him that I was sorry, but I didn't think he could have upgraded his status from DuDe I just met yesterday to my first serious boyfriend. He called me. Long story short he told me that I have to look at the heart of the person non how they look like. Then he sai that when his friends saw a picture of me they told him that I was ugly and asked if he was serious with me. His last message was "I wish you happiness and to have a cool boyfriend" I replied with "likewise". Just what did he expected? Is it normal for a guy to meet a girl and instantly start dating? Cause for me is impossible. Now I just wish to never meet again in the future ┑(￣Д ￣)┍ to cheer up I'm gonna read some good stuf