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vip-13 March 7, 2018 6:27 pm

Guys... I have confessed to a friend that I've liked for years now and he thinks that I've betrayed him by loving him. He's mad at me because I have " ruin our friendship" and it's been two days that he said he's gonna talk to me again about it but he still didn't...what should I do ?

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    miu March 7, 2018 6:39 pm

    no offense but he sounds like an ass right now. All i can say is face him and talk through it. Dont let him avoid it and dont drag it. ( this can be shitty advice but from experience facing it and communicating it the best choice)

    miu March 7, 2018 6:40 pm

    Also most important is dont blame yourself for falling in love. cheer up XD hopefully things go smoothly

    V1P March 7, 2018 6:50 pm
    Also most important is dont blame yourself for falling in love. cheer up XD hopefully things go smoothly miu

    Thanks bro! ㅠ.ㅠ I think im gonna text him because we are too far away from each other

    OtakuFujoshi March 7, 2018 6:53 pm
    no offense but he sounds like an ass right now. All i can say is face him and talk through it. Dont let him avoid it and dont drag it. ( this can be shitty advice but from experience facing it and communicating... miu

    I’m with him/her. You can’t help but to fall in love with someone and he shouldn’t blame you, no one is at fault. But I hope it goes well.(〜 ̄△ ̄)〜

    Nikka ♧ March 7, 2018 6:54 pm

    Wow so those people really do exist. The world sure is vast. Hahaha. No offense too but if he was your real friend from the start, he wouldn't do this to you. I mean there are other ways of rejecting you like bluntly saying 'Im sorry i don't like you, I only see you as a friend' stuff like that but to get mad is the least he should do right know. And all i can say is like miu, tall to him. Ask him of what he's planning to do with your friendship. And if he still acts like an ass and blame you for this and that, it's time to move on, heal your heart and be happy again.

    V1P March 7, 2018 9:38 pm
    Also most important is dont blame yourself for falling in love. cheer up XD hopefully things go smoothly miu

    Yeah I was already ready to be rejected and just wanting to share it with him but getting this reaction was the least I had expect... As it was my first confession I thought it was normal for him to get mad and upset...Thanks for your advices...it really helped me

    V1P March 7, 2018 10:43 pm

    Thanks otakufujoshi and Nikka