Don't tell her anything. I mean she has to find it out on her own if she's bi or not. Just support her that it is not something bad and such, but also tell her it can be difficult depending on her culture and surrounding. And to not jump into conclusions because of one time or because of other people telling her ;)
I agree. Understanding your own sexuality is a personal journey. Your or anyone's unwanted (or unasked for) interference will just confuse your friend. Support is all u can do.
Thank you! It’s just that she’s in a panicky state now about her sexuality and her relationship with A. I’ve told her that no matter what decision she makes I’d be on her side. However that didn’t seem like the answer she wanted. I believe she wanted a black or white answer however we gave her gray. It’s like watching a baby take their first step but they don’t want u to let go of their hand.... sorta? Or like teaching someone to float that by being calm in the water can they only float instead of frolicking around. I watch over her. Thank you for your advices! ٩(๑❛ᴗ❛๑)۶
So I have this friend who totally had a yaoi (more actually Yuri but I haven’t read any Yuri so I can’t really say) but really manga yaoi like moment. She and A (we’ll call this person A) went drinking and got a bit too drunk. Things got heated....pretty well I guess lol. They got to second base. When that happened both girls denied liking girls or being into that stuff.(like total yaoi moment) And now my friend is all confused because she thought herself as straight and has never felt anything romantic towards girls before. Now I’m pansexual and see how I get like when I’m drunk I told her it’s just the drunk ness....... but when it happened a second time..... idk what to tell her. Bi-curious? But that’s not really right. What advice should I give her??? Read too many yaoi that I wanted to tell her she’s BI but....she might not be. Idk. Help!