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Miruki-Way May 31, 2018 3:25 am

Hi guys, I wanted to have a discussion about something.

I don't feel any emotional attachement to the people around me. I see myself as an introvert but I have no problem interacting with people. Usually people say that I am nice. I don't think that I am hated but I also am not especially loved. I am very secretive, I never talk about myself and if I do it usually is about thing with little importance. I talk to people I know via messages but I never start the conversation because I don't feel the need to talk to them. It's the same with my family, I don't talk to them unless I meet them. I feel weird because I always hear people talking about how they wouldn't be able to live without their friends or family, but I don't have anyone like that in my life. I don't miss them and I would probably be fine even if I didn't talk to them at all. I have never fell in love to and it might be connected to it. I wonder if I am just very selfish or is it that I am just very picky?

Anyone else has the same problem?

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    Anonymous May 31, 2018 3:40 am

    you should have friends, then, the probability of you being bullied is zero... if you have financial or shelter problem you could depend on your friends just like the Main character in Molly's Game movie, she sleep in her friend's couch for several months..... just remember, people were created to be loved. Things were created to be used. The reason why the world is in chaos is because things are being loved and people are being used

    Miruki-Way May 31, 2018 3:41 am
    This reply will be showed after approved! Wisteria

    Thank you for responding, it made me very happy. It's nice to see that people also share the same feelings as me .

    BananaSlayer May 31, 2018 3:41 am

    I felt the same. In my case, I was very distressed bc my family used to say that I was too apathetic, that I didn’t care about them at all. I disposed quickly of friendships bc I didn’t feel any connection with them whatsoever. I’m ashamed to say that, but I even ignored my pets and didn’t feed them by I didn’t care (luckily my sister was there to fix my neglect). I don’t know if you feel the need of changing that, but after some events in my life that apathy changed (I can’t explain what made my life perspective change so much honestly) and now I can truly say I care about the friends that I have in my life and my nearest family members. I still have some of that apathy inside me (it become noticeable when my grandma died and I didn’t feel anything at all), but things change and I wanted to change so I make an effort everyday to care about things. I feel less empty that way.

    Anonymous May 31, 2018 3:45 am
    you should have friends, then, the probability of you being bullied is zero... if you have financial or shelter problem you could depend on your friends just like the Main character in Molly's Game movie, she s... @Anonymous

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    HamesTheJames May 31, 2018 3:48 am

    dude you explained how i feel every day in words, holy shit

    Miruki-Way May 31, 2018 3:49 am
    I felt the same. In my case, I was very distressed bc my family used to say that I was too apathetic, that I didn’t care about them at all. I disposed quickly of friendships bc I didn’t feel any connection ... BananaSlayer

    Were you like that since your childhood?? For me I changed when I was in middle school ( I was about 13 ).
    I do feel that I should try to change that. I've trying to find people on the internet to talk since people seem friendlier

    Miruki-Way May 31, 2018 3:53 am
    you should have friends, then, the probability of you being bullied is zero... if you have financial or shelter problem you could depend on your friends just like the Main character in Molly's Game movie, she s... @Anonymous

    I get what you're saying, but it is also a bit pessimistic. If i had to ask for help I would prefer if it was to someone I have a genuine attachement to.

    Miruki-Way May 31, 2018 3:55 am
    dude you explained how i feel every day in words, holy shit HamesTheJames

    Lol I can see that some people relate to me.
    Btw I am secretly a fan of yours, I often see you responding question

    HamesTheJames May 31, 2018 4:06 am
    Lol I can see that some people relate to me. Btw I am secretly a fan of yours, I often see you responding question Miruki-Way

    lol my guy i just spend my life here XD

    Anonymous May 31, 2018 4:07 am

    I AM LITERALLY THE SAME!

    BananaSlayer May 31, 2018 4:12 am
    Were you like that since your childhood?? For me I changed when I was in middle school ( I was about 13 ). I do feel that I should try to change that. I've trying to find people on the internet to talk since pe... Miruki-Way

    Nope. I was a cute kid actually. It changed when I was like 14 and I began noticing life wasn’t as pretty as I thought. People in the internet actually help (sometimes). I used to talk a lot to a girl in Tumblr and she really helped when I felt bad. I hope you’ll get to change. Slowly but surely

    shriya May 31, 2018 4:19 am

    I'm basically the same, but the only difference is that I get extremely attached to animals. Maybe because they can't respond, IDK ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭

    1OvErDoSE01 May 31, 2018 4:19 am

    same except I'm not secretive at all

    Miruki-Way May 31, 2018 4:38 am
    Nope. I was a cute kid actually. It changed when I was like 14 and I began noticing life wasn’t as pretty as I thought. People in the internet actually help (sometimes). I used to talk a lot to a girl in Tumb... BananaSlayer

    Thanks

    Miruki-Way May 31, 2018 4:42 am
    I'm basically the same, but the only difference is that I get extremely attached to animals. Maybe because they can't respond, IDK ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭ shriya

    I feel the same. I don't have this problem with animals

    ItMe May 31, 2018 6:01 am

    I feel the same too. I choose not to interact with people unless necessary but I’m not bullied or anything. There’s this other girl in my class who doesn’t interact with anyone but no one bullies her, that’s what great about my class is that they’ll accept you for who you are. I also don’t talk with my family much but that’s okay. It’s okay to not talk to someone, your not being selfish or picky, although some people are, but it’s fine, there’s nothing to worry about.

    YAoILovesMe May 31, 2018 9:17 am

    Bruuuhhh~~~!!! Same!!!! And because I'm not a talker, people tend to judge me as snobbish etc. I don't often talk to anyone because I don't have anything to talk about. And sometimes, talking is exhausting for me. (〜 ̄△ ̄)〜