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Discussion: Soulmates

ThePurplePaladin June 4, 2018 8:40 am

Do you guys believe in soulmates?
And if yes, do you think the relationship between soulmates HAVE to be romantic?

I have a friend, well, now my best friend really, who is a guy.
We attended (we are graduating) the same class for 4 years at high school (we are now 18) and ever since the 1st grade everybody said that he liked me. We became friends instantly but we weren't really close, just had some things in common.
Well, we started to get to know each other more and more and everybody kept asking me whether I like him romantically because it was obvious to them that he had feelings for me. I told them I didn't, but I guess nobody believed me and they just kept 'shipping' us I guess.
Our story really started in 3rd grade when he suddenly confessed to me on a party. I was slightly drunk (I'm not sure about him) and we talked for hours. I apologised for not being able to return his feelings and we actually stayed friends because he said that even if we couldn't be together, he wanted to stay friends.
From that moment we ACTUALLY were honest with each other, like we literally told each other everything. Today he is the one who knows me the best and likewise I guess.

The reason why I'm asking this is that I cannot imagine my days without him, but I also know that I can't love him romantically.
So basically, I think he is my soulmate, but not romantically.

Question is: do you guys think that it's possible?

Responses
    HamesTheJames June 4, 2018 8:43 am

    yo thats called a good fucking friendship and that i am envious of, although i do believe in soulmates i think they have to be romantic

    Anon June 4, 2018 8:45 am

    It is possible.

    Anonymous June 4, 2018 8:46 am
    yo thats called a good fucking friendship and that i am envious of, although i do believe in soulmates i think they have to be romantic HamesTheJames

    like you and jungkookmanga4lifeu

    chirchy! June 4, 2018 9:00 am

    u guys have an amazingly strong connection but personally i dont believe in soulmates. i mean theres too many factors where if soulmates did exist it would be virtually impossible to meet them
    ie
    - age (like weird age gaps)
    - location
    - gender
    - i mean soulmates are likely to not even be alive in the same time periods since they mightve been alive in the 18th century or will be born in the 25th century, so as long as time persists theres a 1 in infinity chance a pair of soulmates will meet

    Anonymous June 4, 2018 9:03 am
    yo thats called a good fucking friendship and that i am envious of, although i do believe in soulmates i think they have to be romantic HamesTheJames

    Do you have a life? You're always on here responding to stuff. Ease up. That's how people become annoying.

    Emihue June 4, 2018 9:09 am

    Nope. I think its beautiful that soulmates probably dont exist

    ThePurplePaladin June 4, 2018 9:27 am
    yo thats called a good fucking friendship and that i am envious of, although i do believe in soulmates i think they have to be romantic HamesTheJames

    Thank you! :D Yeah, I can't even believe how lucky I am. And I understand where you are coming from :)

    ThePurplePaladin June 4, 2018 9:27 am
    It is possible. @Anon

    (●'◡'●)ノ

    SOPHY12 June 4, 2018 9:27 am

    No.
    I had a friend like that, but after all our years of friendship it ended. I never thought of him romantically, but he liked me. When I met my fiancee and we started dating he tried to split us up. He created alot if unnecessary drama. Make your feelings known, and make sure he understands.

    ThePurplePaladin June 4, 2018 9:28 am
    u guys have an amazingly strong connection but personally i dont believe in soulmates. i mean theres too many factors where if soulmates did exist it would be virtually impossible to meet themie- age (like weir... chirchy!

    Thanks:) Yeah, that makes sense! Thank you for the serious answer!:)

    ThePurplePaladin June 4, 2018 9:28 am
    Nope. I think its beautiful that soulmates probably dont exist Emihue

    I see, thank you for your answer! :)

    ThePurplePaladin June 4, 2018 9:30 am
    Do you have a life? You're always on here responding to stuff. Ease up. That's how people become annoying. @Anonymous

    Why the hate? @HamesTheJames can do whatever he/she want, why not be here "responding to stuff"? Is it not allowed? Who are you to judge? Seriously, do YOU have a life?

    (Sorry, I'm usually not a dick and I like to believe that I'm never rude without a reason, but you piss me off with your attitude.)

    ThePurplePaladin June 4, 2018 9:32 am
    No. I had a friend like that, but after all our years of friendship it ended. I never thought of him romantically, but he liked me. When I met my fiancee and we started dating he tried to split us up. He create... SOPHY12

    Wow, that's fucked up. Pardon my language.
    Yeah, we try to be as honest as possible. Sometimes it's scary how much :D
    But yeah, in my opinion honesty is the key in every relationship be it friendship or anything else.
    Thanks for your answer! :)

    Emihue June 4, 2018 9:52 am

    you were drunk in the third grade ???

    Emihue June 4, 2018 9:58 am

    omg also its funny you say this because I follow someone on tumblr they literally just posted a story on soulmates!!! what do you think
    http://hai-moe.tumblr.com/post/174560035689/soulmates

    Blu June 4, 2018 12:18 pm

    He is so mature that he still want to be friends.

    I just happy for you. I hope you two always being together and have a good memories :)

    Anonymous June 4, 2018 12:58 pm

    well, if you look at my history on the browser... I would say... I dont believe in soulmate

    HamesTheJames June 4, 2018 7:40 pm
    Do you have a life? You're always on here responding to stuff. Ease up. That's how people become annoying. @Anonymous

    1 i already am annoying
    2 this is what i do when im not doing homework or fortnite
    3 dont change the subject

    ThePurplePaladin June 4, 2018 8:04 pm
    you were drunk in the third grade ??? Emihue

    In my country we have 8 years in elementary school and then 4 or 5 years in high school depending on what you specialize in :) I'm in the English spec class which is 4 years and 3rd grade is the same as 11th grade, so basically we were seventeen. :)

    ThePurplePaladin June 4, 2018 8:05 pm
    omg also its funny you say this because I follow someone on tumblr they literally just posted a story on soulmates!!! what do you think http://hai-moe.tumblr.com/post/174560035689/soulmates Emihue

    For me it's not available :( But it is a coincidence indeed :D