Okay, I saw poly and it’s not yaoi or shounen ai (shoujo) but I HAVE to rec this : http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/hare_kon/
Really sorry it’s not exactly what you asked for, but I personally don’t enjoy poly manga, but I enjoyed this one... again sorry!!
i remember reading one. hold on, i think it's a nitta.
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http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/groupie/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/koi_ga_bokura_wo_yurusu_hani/
I don't know if it's what you want. It's a complicated story, but I adore the mangaka.

Hello guys! I've read a lot of yaoi and shounen ai mangas that end in polyamorous relationships lately. While I still prefer traditional monogamous relationships, there are some poly stories that I liked. However, I was just wondering if you guys have read a yaoi/shounen ai manga that starts with a polyamorous relationship and ends with one of them leaving the relationship? I'm just curious if there are mangas that exist with this plot. Thanks!