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its funny how some of you guys think the uke was "slutty" for sleeping with his superior. ...

Ontan August 12, 2018 3:10 pm

its funny how some of you guys think the uke was "slutty" for sleeping with his superior. its not like he could have waited and just watch the seme from afar forever. of course he had to move to other people and he was single so whats up

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    Mameiha August 12, 2018 7:23 pm

    Right? Loving someone when they don't love you back, or you think they don't love you back, doesn't mean you can't move on with your life. Good Lord, if everyone who ever loved someone one-sidedly just stayed stuck, no one in the world would ever date! Poor Fujita felt like his situation was helpless and hopeless. So, he did the natural thing and tried moving on. Life isn't a manga, unrequited love rarely becomes mutual. More so when you're talking about homosexual relationships. Not every man on the planet is secretly or unknowingly gay! LMAO

    Daya August 31, 2018 4:21 pm

    Problem is he admits to stalking him, he’s spineless, and he’s stupid. Kawasaki deserves much better than him. He played stupid mind games instead of manning up and admitting his feelings. Kawasaki was being protective, and Fujita was just being manipulative in a stupid way that back fired on his ass. Everyone is free to sleep with who they will. Doesn’t mean it’s smart. Fujita hurt the manager, Kawasaki (who didn’t blame him), and himself with his cowardly behavior

    Mameiha August 31, 2018 5:30 pm
    Problem is he admits to stalking him, he’s spineless, and he’s stupid. Kawasaki deserves much better than him. He played stupid mind games instead of manning up and admitting his feelings. Kawasaki was bein... Daya

    You're right, it isn't healthy behaviour. However, it also isn't uncommon behaviour, especially for gay men in conservative countries like Japan. Thousands, even millions, live in the closet, trying desperately to fit the mold their culture demands. Why do you think so many manga have the "straight turns gay" trope. In Japan, they really do think that homosexuality is a choice you can change your mind about as if you were choosing the color socks you are going to wear. To the Japanese, homosexuality is merely a fetish, a phase or a dalliance. You and I live in the US and we are spoiled by our culture's acceptance of homosexuality and every other tumblrsex that pops up each week. Hell, for us, it's trendy to be gay, lesbian, dragonkin or non-newtonian gender fluid. That is not how things are in Japan. The government refuses to support LGBT groups, information, education or anti-discrimination laws by using a declining birth rate as their excuse. So, cowardice is common, living in the closet is common and even promiscuity is common, because the people of Japan are constantly reminded that there is no future in a homosexual relationship. With no anti-discrimination laws, a person can be fired, lose their home or even be expelled from school if there are even rumors of them being gay. So, approaching someone you had homosexual sex with in high school, after even a few months apart, could end up costing you everything if they decide to make trouble for you. So, yes, hiding your true feelings is cowardly and it is unhealthy, but in a culture like Japan's, it is also how many homosexuals have to live to survive.