It's sometimes cute to read about it in novels and manga but is it really that easy? I haven't experienced extreme bullying that would make me think of dark thoughts so I want to understand. After years of not seeing your bully/bullies, could you accept it if he/she one day popped into your life (like suddenly bumping into you, marrying your sibling, etc) and apologized for everything they've done. Whenever I see a movie about this very scenario I stop watching cause I get angry at the bully. They make it seem so easy to forgive and forget but is it really?
It's sometimes cute to read about it in novels and manga but is it really that easy? I haven't experienced extreme bullying that would make me think of dark thoughts so I want to understand. After years of not seeing your bully/bullies, could you accept it if he/she one day popped into your life (like suddenly bumping into you, marrying your sibling, etc) and apologized for everything they've done. Whenever I see a movie about this very scenario I stop watching cause I get angry at the bully. They make it seem so easy to forgive and forget but is it really?