Responses
"I'd be really annoyed with the seme. if my partner cannot respect my desire to keep it private without even hearing my side then that's a huge red flag."
you're right!
I've had one night stands and preferred to hide my full identity for my own security. in my journeys i met some guys who are like this seme. cool at first, sex compatibility was there, but then they get clingy after that one night. i do clarify that the relationship ends in bed but some guys can't understand it. of course in real life, the chances of me meeting them in the day at the same office is very little unlike in most mangas but if this happens to me, I'd be really annoyed with the seme. if my partner cannot respect my desire to keep it private without even hearing my side then that's a huge red flag. i don't care if he's good looking. good looking people are harder to drive away because they can easily win people's trust.but that's me! I'm not the uke here. i still have to see how this story will unfold.