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People. Arent some of us overreacting? Just enjoy the story. You're not convincing anyone....

candytuft February 13, 2019 8:36 pm

People. Arent some of us overreacting? Just enjoy the story. You're not convincing anyone. I personally dont think anyone should judge so hard on fictional characters. Are you sure you're not blaming the character for any discomfort feelings you have? I think so. Someone even started making things up. Not a good sign. Those criticism is not constructive therefore should be put to an end. Pease kindly keep your judgmental opinion on this fictional manwha to yourself and work on your own emotions, please.

Because what if, what if, the source of the problem is not within the characters, but your way of thinking? BOOM. CHANGED MY MIND.

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    drip drop February 13, 2019 8:41 pm

    They are overrecting....I think some of them may be kids or just very young...it would be sad if adults are acting like they are...

    strangenight February 13, 2019 9:26 pm
    They are overrecting....I think some of them may be kids or just very young...it would be sad if adults are acting like they are... drip drop

    I'm curious, how old are you?
    You don't have to answer on this, if you don't want.

    I think we have rights to judge character in movies/manga or books. They are fictional, but their behaviors are this same what humans in real life. That why they moved people.
    We can't just judge people for their opinions, but on this forum are a lot of this.
    Someone even say, that he hate people, who like Yanek. Like wtf (⊙…⊙ )

    shyshyshy February 13, 2019 10:02 pm

    It wasn't enough to judge people in real daily life, they even judging fictional character now. Honestly I feel tired seeing society these days, I delete all my social media, I still watch Youtube though, and wow the comment section are literally toxic, it's like Witch Hunting, they burn the witch even if you aren't one.

    I agreed with you, the problem is the way they are thinking. It has nothing to do with this but I've been living my life being judged just for everything, because my body not skinny (I'm not fat, it was normal based on BMI but in the eyes of others I was Fat), Or because I'm so bad at sport (I got Top Score in other subject though) and just because I dated handsome guy but he is delinquent, I let the criticism get to me, I tried so hard to live up to people standard, but it was never enough, there is no way you can live up to people expectation, before I knew it I lost myself, and now I'm so tired of living but too scared of dying.

    strangenight February 13, 2019 10:20 pm
    It wasn't enough to judge people in real daily life, they even judging fictional character now. Honestly I feel tired seeing society these days, I delete all my social media, I still watch Youtube though, and w... shyshyshy

    Hey, don't you think about going to psyhistrist? You litlle sound like you have depressive. Sometimes is good dissociate yourself from toxic people in your life, for example who judge you and bring you down. I had to do this with my parents to start normal function.
    If you want talk, writte to me.

    candytuft February 15, 2019 10:01 pm
    It wasn't enough to judge people in real daily life, they even judging fictional character now. Honestly I feel tired seeing society these days, I delete all my social media, I still watch Youtube though, and w... shyshyshy

    Deleting social media seem a good choice for you. In my humble opinion though, if i could give you some advice: there will always people around you who's going to hurt you. Self-love is important. I mean, it's not about what people think about your body but do you love your body, all good and the bad? We are the first one who should accept our imperfection. if you already did, then im very glad. After we are more comfortable in our own body, maybe a little social media wouldnt hurt. Im sure you'll find some people who are nice. Not everyone is evil, right? Also, what's important to me is your boyfriend treating you right, is he?

    Im sorry if the situation you are in sucks balls right now. Are you in high school? We all gone through some shit in social life. It's mostly the hardest around adolescence age. But things will change. People grow up, though not all. It can get better. Gain yourself back, life's worth it. Dont let anyone's labels become who you are. Let yourself define you. What do you think of yourself? What do you want to become? Work on our current-self to reach our ideal-self. In the process, please be kind to yourself :)

    Laaasstt thing, no one should suffer alone. You deserve to have friends who support you. You can always talk to me, or anyone who's really significant to you. Best wishes for you

    candytuft February 15, 2019 10:13 pm
    I'm curious, how old are you?You don't have to answer on this, if you don't want.I think we have rights to judge character in movies/manga or books. They are fictional, but their behaviors are this same what hu... strangenight

    I do agree we all have rights to judge fictional characters. I just wish we dont have to be so hard on them, you know? :(
    Most people judge others too quickly and inaccurately. They dont really know the person but put negative labels on her/him anyway. Now though, how well we know these fictional characters? We know them even less (just from what were shown to us by the author) so guess how objective we can be to these fictional characters? People read manhwa and suddenly they all the truest judge of character? Huh. We can judge people, but still open to redo/renew our judgement on them for the purpose of being nice, kind, respecting, and human. Because what's the point in judging, feel bad because of it, and being mostly inaccurate about it? Wish we could just be nicer and more forgiving.. We should never take one or two mistakes become the only thing that defines a person.

    maychan February 16, 2019 6:21 pm

    I heard somewhere that when you read a story, you basically reading yourself first. I thought it was interesting point you broght up candytuft, but I doubt people will stop spreading hate for no reason. it sad but well...it better it ignore them I guess.
    still I agree with you that I wish people will stop hating and attacking other's in the comment sactions ( ̄へ ̄)but well hoping is not going to change what people do. if they want to attack other's and spread hate, there is not much we can do.

    candytuft February 16, 2019 9:35 pm

    Oh that sounds very true. We dont recognize how reading actually reflect us. And thank you :) i hope you have a nice day