Sorry, I had meant to vote up
And emotional abusr from the main male
And physical abuse, many times from the main male
And the main male don't see anything wrong about how horrible he acts
And there is victim blaming
And forced marriage
And women only find hapiness when they began to obey the main male
And they justify all the main male horrible acts as love (uggghhh)
Honestly I'm scared what chinese see as romance!!!
Thank God it's all fantasy
Sadly... romance novels are a mirror of the society they come from and a tool to teach girls what romance is and what to expect... soooo... maybe is not completely fantasy!!!
Also, it teach girls that is ok that their partner abuse of them and if the abuse happens is their fault... also in many of these the woman only get hapiness when she began to obey the man... so it is not a good thing...
Still I have found some good webcomics where there are no rape, strong main woman, no abuse from the main male character, etc... they are rare but they exist!!!
Also, the best romances I have seen have been more to novels and comics for boys, not all of them, but I have seen some where the girl is strong and the guy is good to her... sadly, a lot of them have harem that is also a not so good thing to teach boys!!!
Also, as I have realized in the coments in some webcomics, they normalize abuse and even girls find it romantic!!! I was scared reading comments saying how hot and romantic was the rape and those comments come from women!!!
Ecen webcomics where there are abuse they take it as the man is being worried by her and etc... so yep... even if it is fantasy it is scaring!!!
THERE IS ALWAYS AND EVER RAPE IN CHINESE SHOUJO MANGA